Theres this girl. Should i continue down this rocky road? 10 points best answer!!?

[eadweald71]

Ok so there is this girl i have known for almost 2 years. She is my best friends, fiance's twin... Confusing i know. She is currently going through a divorce, she is 20 and has 2 kids... Yep. She is an AMAZING girl though great to be around down to earth ect ect. Everything has been going great between us, were not trying to make anything "official" though since she just got out of a 4 year marriage. Lets just say the marriage is no longer a problem now and i know that for a fact. Personal things happened which i will not post on the internet. But back to this, everything was going excellent till last week. She wanted to keep all of our sexual activities on the Down low, which is fine with me, but i told her sisters fiance (my best friend) she gets mad at me because i told him when i later found out she told them, and more. like details i never told anyone. I was told that she told them first and later my friend said he already knew i told him weeks ago, wich is true. She says she only told him because i told them too much already and she had to clarify. We worked this out already. But the new one!!!! She told me a few weeks ago my friends brother (her future brother in law) has been hitting on her liking her fb pics, messaging her on fb ect. I get pissed told her i was going to take care of it. She asks me not to do anything since they are family. i say ok fine. Well a few days later he posts on facebook "Looks like im taking a trip to miami on wednesday, this should be fun ; )" and she is the only one that likes it. She doesnt understand why i got mad until i explain. I asked her "so he is coming down here to see you" she tells me know that she knows nothing about this. Keep in mind they have NEVER met. So the next morning i wake up and call this kid. We know of each other but have never hung out. So i call him and say " hey man whats up. how ya been i hear your coming to miami, lets chill man ill buy ya a beer" he says ok man sounds good ill hit ya up when im down there" i ask him so man you going to chill with "leslie" he says yea man weve been talking for a while shes pretty cool im going to go meet her blah blah frikkin blah. I told him look in case you didnt know me and "leslie" are talking. Its not fb official but id appreciate it if you back up. im not calling saying im going to whoop you *** or whatever just give us space. he says " ok man my bad i didnt know im sorry" i tell him its fine but if he tells anyone about this conversation such as his brother his bestfriend his mom or especially "leslie" it will be his worst mistake. He says ok. As soon as he gets in town wednesday he tells her EVERYTHING!!! she gets pissed at me, and i dont hear from her from wednesday till sunday when he left. He lives 200 miles away, and she assures me there is nothing between them, but yet i have already seen a comment from him calling her babe. She says he calls everyone babe. And on top of that they have pics together with his arm around her ect ect. Like i said she is an awesome girl but idk if i can continue. For the first few days of not talking to her it was killing me. Mainly cuz i had no closure and didnt know what i had done wrong. Now i have my closure and am over her. Im trying to keep my distance but i dont know if i should give it another try... Ohh and she was saying the douche was wanting to come see her on friday. But she may be going to a bonfire with me friday. That will tell me what i really need to know for sure. And remember before you answer she isnt ready for another relationship, and im not ready to jump into a huge commitment like that. We just want to take it day by day. And like i said we were perfect until this guy hopped his way into the picture. Im 22 by the way. Im mature for my age, i work 60 hours a week. im not a "kid"

[wakeley58]

Oh my god, do not waste your time with this girl, just tell her that if you are doing stuff together she should at least not be seeing other guys if she is "with you". Don't be her friend with benefits, be civil but it's not worth your time to start anything with her :(