because i looked it up and here is what the law says for my state
Ohio recognizes that certain statements constitute defamation per se. These statements are so egregious that they will always be considered defamatory and are assumed to harm the plaintiff's reputation, without further need to prove that harm. Ohio has a broad definition of defamation per se. In contrast to most states, which limit defamation per se to three or four specific categories of statements, Ohio defines the term as any statement that "reflects upon the character of [the plaintiff] by bringing him into ridicule, hatred, or contempt, or affects him injuriously in his trade or profession.” Becker v. Toulmin, 138 N.E.2d 391, 395 (Ohio 1956). A statement can constitute defamation per se only if it conveys its negative meaning directly, not by innuendo or implication.
this is what she has wrote about me
(this is my cousins name, but i will just call her a on here)a-your cousin is ignorant.
and she has more stuff writen but she blocked me and from her page so i can't get it.. but there are also things like that in her emails as well
but she has also sent me emails..and i was wondering if i could get her for harassment. i had blocked her from my myspace after she wrote the first one and now she is writing them on facebook.. but i don't want to put the emails up because they have gotten lots of names in them and i don't feel like going and having to change them all..
i didn't know if i could get anywhere with these or if i should just go file a restraining order..btw this is my fiance's cousin!

