Wet myself at summer school?

by **jerrick** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:01 pm

I literally cried once I finally got home,sorry this is going to be long just bear with me guys please I need help. T_T The story is that during class we had a quiz and I had to go as soon as the teacher started passing them out. But, it was a miniquiz and those always take about 30 mins. I thought I could hold it until then so I just started on the quiz and would ask when I'm finished. But, by the time I'm on the 10th question I felt like I really had to go now. I was halfway through so I asked the teach if I could go to the bathroom, she said in a few more minutes the quiz would be over and I could go. I tried to finish the quiz but I couldnt concentrate I just wanted to pee=/ Then it happens and in my head I'm praying to whatever God that is out there that I don't wet myself. It started out small and I DESPERETLY tried to hold it in but I couldnt anymore so I just kept...yeah you get it. But then it gets even more emberrisng. Our seats at this summer school aren't like regular ones. Instead they have holes in them why? I don't know I just don't know. So when I was literally wetting myself it managed to get past through my pants and out of the chair. Oh my gosh, I will never forget this... the pee kept on hitting the floor and everyone could clearly hear it, well I think everyone. But I know for sure the ones to my left saw it because when I turned around one of the boys were looking at the ground as I was STILL PEEING MYSELF then looked exactly at me, it was sooo emberrising I just turned back around. Then the other 2 boys to my left definetly heard it and started talking about it. I felt like crying when I heard them laugh. The worst part is when the test was finished mins later which felt like eternity. I didnt even know the time because the classroom didn't have a clock. Actually that wasnt the worst part. The most terribe part about all this is when I just sat there in my own pee with my head in my hands for the rest of the class. I looked at nobody but, Ik a lot were looking at me. AND the other teacher STILL continues the lecture while while Im sitting there like a complete idiot. The other teacher then says I can go to the bathroom now but I dont say anything I just think in my head , Why here? Why now? Just why??T_T but luckily she takes action once she realizes I had an accident and calls the vice principal out of class, I thank her DEARLY for that but at the same time I wish she would've just let me go to the bathroom in the beginning. As I sat there waiting for this to end I heard the asian boy behind me whispering, "Call your father, call your father!" But I was just so ashamed I couldnt move plus my phone battery was dead, sigh... Finally they say we're going to do an activity downstairs( which was orignally planned in class but my accident changed everythingI bet) and the vice principal appeared just as the rest of the class left. I tell her what happened and said I could call my parents to go home, it was so awkward. We cleaned the mess and she gave me two large T-shirts one to cover my pants the other to wrap around to cover my back. Luckily the T-shirt was slightly long enough to cover my the huge spot in front of my pants. But I had to walk in small steps so the obvious darkerpatch slightly lower between the shirt wouldnt be seen. Waited in the office for an hour then my mom came and I had to pee again on the way home( I think I have a bladder problem??)won't bore you with the rest. The question is that I don't want to go back to school but my Dad is telling me I should just go back and stop being silly, he was practically yelling at me like I did something wrong, but I dont care what he says anymore so what should I do so I wont be forced to go back? I didnt go to summer school because of bad grades, in fact I get As and Bs with some Cs. It was just optional and I thought it would be fun. It actually sucks really bad I regret joining lol:/ So basically I cried until my head hurt when my Dad said I should go back but I really don't to? I have no friends I'm a loner there, no one knows me but based on this they'll now know me as the "wierd quit girl who pees herself". I tried explaining this to my parents but they really dont understand. They say no one will care they'll forget about it but it's like they forget KIDS ARE FREAKING MEAN. ofc they won't forget it happened TODAY not a year ago=_= Plus we only have 1 week and 4 days left of summer school so I find going back just to be laughed and stared at is a bad move. Please people PLEASE help me convince my Dad to not let me go back, I'm really scared even as I type this T___T

by **chason62** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:05 pm

I know that you are scare and you feel like you don't want to go back, but look at the other side, this is only a summer school (it is not going to last until the day you die). I think you should go back but ready to explain your situation to your classmates and teachers about the incident (your teacher might able to deal with it better than students). By the way, try to use bathroom during breaks.

by **josephus** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:16 pm

Be strong. Go back to school. This is just one of those life lessons that you don't enjoy. You will experience many embarassing moments in life. The few jerks that make fun of you are just jerks. Ignore them, or better still, make a joke out of it. Say something like, "I bet the teacher will say yes next time I ask to go. Lucky I just had to pee,"

by **burdett** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:21 pm

PEE. You like use this word a ton of times eh.

by **nickson** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:23 pm

It will make more of an impression if you don't go back to school. I puked once during a quiz, lol... I didn't go to school for two days after that, and when I came back (humiliated) the students were genuinely kind and understood my embarrassment. You could take a few days off too, making it seem like it was a medical problem. Next time, don't listen to the teacher. If you really have to use the restroom, dismiss yourself and go when it's that bad. You only have a few days left. You can do it!

by **vohkinne** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:33 pm

Yeah honestly don't listen to teachers who say that you can't leave the room until your test is finished.
Get the point across that you're literally about to burst--you can even tell them that you absolutely need to go and can't hold it in.
I think teachers who won't let you use the bathroom during a test are absolute bull. Don't listen to them; just make sure you clearly communicate to them that you absolutely need to go.

by **michelangelo** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:34 pm

Yeah honestly don't listen to teachers who say that you can't leave the room until your test is finished.
Get the point across that you're literally about to burst--you can even tell them that you absolutely need to go and can't hold it in.
I think teachers who won't let you use the bathroom during a test are absolute bull. Don't listen to them; just make sure you clearly communicate to them that you absolutely need to go.

I really feel sorry for you. The embarrassment must have been horrendous.
It is a pity that you didn't just leave the room and face the wrath of your teacher. At least you would have been spared the embarrassment.
The fact that it is just a summer school is a good thing. Hopefully you will not be seeing the same people again.
I know that the majority of people have said that you should go back to the summer school but I must admit that I would not. I would take the view that it had been traumatic enough and I just wanted some time to get over it.
Stress can make some people ill and what you suffered was really stressful. It is one thing to be brave but we all need to think of what feels best for ourselves at times.
Hope you can put this out of your mind.

by **therron57** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:40 pm

You should just laugh about it if anyone brings it up. I know it seems like the world is ending but it really isn't that big of a deal everyone does it at some time. If you really think you might do it again I would suggest you wear a diaper. I have found the GoodNights pull-ups work pretty good even during the day size X-XL can fit practically anyone and they have cute designs. They aren't that noticeable either. If you know you have a weak blatter I would not suggest not wearing anything because it might happen again you could just wear a pad but the way you explained it it was alot so you should probably wear a diaper they have ALOT of different kinds you just have to explore and find the ones you like.

by **jordi** » Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:47 pm

Ha ha pee pee pants ha ha pointing finger ha ha

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