What to do after the illegitimate divorce, depression and catches my will to live?

[bardoul]

I met a new girlfriend last year, from troubled families. She has a 2 sisters which one has been married and another is free girl. Her parents had divorced when my girlfriend was 7. She has one daugter and living with her own parents. Her daughter living with man's grandmother. She has social problems, like when she found a new job lies about that she cancellations received on the job. She is graduated only on primary school.

I'm living with this girlfriend on the my parents house about six month. She wanted to stay after a while pregnant, or get married just to get some family law.

When I did it because she did not want to do any work when received from the employer know that she gave herself fired and not how she says she was fired.The whole time I worked she could not live with my parents, to help them, at least one day, but said she must go with girl friends. Every day I drove it or brought home with him.

We did not have any financial options for the apartment since we live in such a state of low rates of development of the workforce. When she became pregnant, showed no enthusiasm for sex or love. In fact she told me that I f*, I'm f*. I talked with friends and acquaintances where they told me that she is prostitute, physically weak person, and I learned that there are problems with social workers in connection with the daughter he has. After I got fired because of stress over the situation as it pertained to me (always said "we must, I must go to take the driving test, you must give me money for her daughter, my friend bought a tunic"), spoke to me as a I'm not about her. I learned that she had relationships with seven guys in the car and that almost everyone knows.

She told me that we are all friends with the faculty munjeni, and I was ashamed at all for someone to bring friends let alone drink the coffee with some of my friends. In the profession I am a programmer, I am currently, I am 26 years old, hang out with friends, I do although I lost my job, and she was cleaning in the field (it should go through the institution to complete the trade school, where he gave up). Her father lives with another woman. And her mother in subsidized housing with a man who was drunk.

I have a lot of written evidence that she had not told me, but I do not know if more would go to court that I should proceed and whether I should ask for compensation for physical pain.

I think that she is currently looking for someone else, even though she is pregnant but does not show any emotional sensitivity. She told me that she will live with a man that she has a daughter and to her I am not important.

For her I broke down and screamed at her, but she said she does not want to come back with my parents at my home where we have peace because there is currently no financial possibilities.. How should I treat with a new girlfriend and how she would want to accept life with me?

Currently, I can't sleep while she is pregnant and don't know what is best solutions.

[lathrop]

Dude. Thats way to long.

[jarel]

Dude. Thats way to long.

Marvin, read you question the best I could even tho I didn't fully understand EVERYTHING you stated, I feel I pretty much got the gist of it. From ALL you've said, I feel she is NOT the rite person for you. I feel you can & should do far better than to get mixed up with a girl such as she is. I believe she IS going to do nothing but hurt you & cause hardships to your life. You do sound like a decent caring person. I don't feel she truly has the capabilities of truly loving a person & actually giving them the happiness they deserve. I feel you deserve someone who will love you & return your love for them. This I believe she just isn't capable of doing due to the hardships she herself have live with, lived thru. Has a daughter she doesn't even seem to care that much about. And now what's going to happen to this new baby she's now carrying?!? What's going to happen to it??? She's liable to keep having more & more children & not even know who the fathers are since I gather she's having sex with many men. She can also very easily catch sexually transmitted diseases. You also could catch them from her too. I just feel you so deserve far better than her. I feel she's already insulted you & told you you're not important to her!!! Honey, you do NOT deserve this kind of a life. PLEASE please think about YOUR LIFE & how much better you'd be with someone who would love you & return your love you give to her. THIS IS what YOU DESERVE!!! Please think about it in all seriousness & think about yourself. Aren't you better than that, don't you deserve better than that???!!! I'd just let her go her own way. Put her in your past & go forward with your own life. Your past is forever gone, but your future is still your own. Think about YOU & please let her go, I know in time you'll be so glad you did.... do wish you the very best...:)