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[hackett]

To slander the other partner? Not both are doing it but just one? They say the most mean things you can imagine. Well the person that asked for the divorce or the break up. They are the usual ones that do it. But what if the one that is doing the slandering or gossiping are the ones that wanted the divorce or break up?

[giulio]

They are usually trying to justify what happened. You both probably are.

The sad part is there are no winners. Our friends literally choose sides. The church ladies ran to him like dogs in heat with caseroles and offers for "TAKE ME" . We were big in the church ministry when we separated it was hideous.

He made up lies that I was running off with a guy on the internet. I had church members shunning me in public forget the fact that he was sleeping with someone else before.

People will believe the lies. My kids told me divorce is like war and all things are fair in love and war. But you know what I have that he doesn't. EVERY wedding or event we have to show up together I can look him in his eyes he can't look me in the eyes.

The best and I mean the best revenge is to be happy. You have heard it a million times but it is the one true thing that drives the other person crazy. Did I mention I have a great job in another state with a degree and just bought my own home with a swimming pool? I know what I'm talking about.

[pete]

They are usually trying to justify what happened. You both probably are.

The sad part is there are no winners. Our friends literally choose sides. The church ladies ran to him like dogs in heat with caseroles and offers for "TAKE ME" . We were big in the church ministry when we separated it was hideous.

He made up lies that I was running off with a guy on the internet. I had church members shunning me in public forget the fact that he was sleeping with someone else before.

People will believe the lies. My kids told me divorce is like war and all things are fair in love and war. But you know what I have that he doesn't. EVERY wedding or event we have to show up together I can look him in his eyes he can't look me in the eyes.

The best and I mean the best revenge is to be happy. You have heard it a million times but it is the one true thing that drives the other person crazy. Did I mention I have a great job in another state with a degree and just bought my own home with a swimming pool? I know what I'm talking about.

I don't think it is common. I've known plenty of people who divorced, yet kept it civil. Talking about with a friend is one thing everyone needs to talk about their problems, but slandering your ex is a sign of immaturity. Divorce is hard enough without causing more problems.

[hurst]

It's very common for one person to slag the other when a relationship ends. Not sure why that surprises you. Whether it was the dumper or the dumpee doesn't matter. They are hurt, angry and lashing out.

[vaiveatoish]

Really?

I am not slandering you. You did all those things and you know it. I never asked for the divorce.

[khalid]

No but u suck