Why do women do that and what type of stuff is that?

[felabeorbt]

I was sitting outside, like I normally do at my apartment to get on the wifi network, and this class ended. So while I'm minding my own business, two women walk outside because they were finished with the class( one white, one Hispanic). I made it clear, that I was not attracted to anyone in that class on a previous answers' question. Well, the women in that class know who I am and I guess they thought it was a funny comment. "I will watch you while you walk to the car" while I'm sitting outside on my computer. To be honest, I don't walk inside the computer room while they are practicing because the music is loud,to where it an unenjoyable experience. Well, I am a tall, large, black man. Well educated, have my own money, not desperate for sex and might I say just not interested. To be honest, that was the most racist thing I thought a woman could do to a man. I am attracted to white women, but they have to and seriously have to approach me first or I'm not talking to them. I don't know where they would get the audacity to even think of some strange thing like that. I'm very well educated and working on going to Harvard or Yale for law or architecture. What makes you think I want any criminal record? I'm not a statistic. Another thing also, are women who I meet all the time. I don't approach women, they have to approach me and if they are leading me on in a certain way, then say something like "I was just playing." my next reaction is get away from me.

Someone I knew back in high school was a victim of a false lie told by his girlfriends mom. He was black, she was white. He was in juvenile hall and she got to live a normal life. That's why it upset me to hear that. I'm the nicest guy, and will not bother a soul. Naturally, in acceptance to today, I wait until they leave then I will go to the wifi center. I don't make small talk and keep on going. The one who teaches the class seems uncertain to me to. Also, when I'm at the gym, a lot of anglo Saxon women try and get my attention by walking in front of me wearing skimpy wardrobes. Yet, keep getting in front of me putting their goods in my face, I haven't approached any of them because they're just playing games to lead you on into thinking something different than what they were saying initially. Just as well as the nightclub, that's why I wait til they come up to me. Other than that I don't mess with them just try and enjoy my time. I'm tired of them coming up next to me, like go stand by someone else. Why do those women do that? Also, some get mad cause I don't talk to them yet know what they are doing? Also, how can you even consider a young man, furthering his education, really doesn't try and speak to you because I'm uncomfortable in a way, and am not interested to try and cause physical violence to you for no good reason? Also, why hide racism? Why not just come out and say it as a woman? It's a lot to do in point as well, that if I see a man putting his hands on a woman, I look the other way cause it's not my business. The only woman who I would fight for and keep safe was my mom. Is this just certain ethnicities way of getting back at me because I made it clear I don't find them attractive?

[hjortur]

I was sitting outside, like I normally do at my apartment to get on the wifi network, and this class ended. So while I'm minding my own business, two women walk outside because they were finished with the class( one white, one Hispanic). I made it clear, that I was not attracted to anyone in that class on a previous answers' question. Well, the women in that class know who I am and I guess they thought it was a funny comment. "I will watch you while you walk to the car" while I'm sitting outside on my computer. To be honest, I don't walk inside the computer room while they are practicing because the music is loud,to where it an unenjoyable experience. Well, I am a tall, large, black man. Well educated, have my own money, not desperate for sex and might I say just not interested. To be honest, that was the most racist thing I thought a woman could do to a man. I am attracted to white women, but they have to and seriously have to approach me first or I'm not talking to them. I don't know where they would get the audacity to even think of some strange thing like that. I'm very well educated and working on going to Harvard or Yale for law or architecture. What makes you think I want any criminal record? I'm not a statistic. Another thing also, are women who I meet all the time. I don't approach women, they have to approach me and if they are leading me on in a certain way, then say something like "I was just playing." my next reaction is get away from me.

Someone I knew back in high school was a victim of a false lie told by his girlfriends mom. He was black, she was white. He was in juvenile hall and she got to live a normal life. That's why it upset me to hear that. I'm the nicest guy, and will not bother a soul. Naturally, in acceptance to today, I wait until they leave then I will go to the wifi center. I don't make small talk and keep on going. The one who teaches the class seems uncertain to me to. Also, when I'm at the gym, a lot of anglo Saxon women try and get my attention by walking in front of me wearing skimpy wardrobes. Yet, keep getting in front of me putting their goods in my face, I haven't approached any of them because they're just playing games to lead you on into thinking something different than what they were saying initially. Just as well as the nightclub, that's why I wait til they come up to me. Other than that I don't mess with them just try and enjoy my time. I'm tired of them coming up next to me, like go stand by someone else. Why do those women do that? Also, some get mad cause I don't talk to them yet know what they are doing? Also, how can you even consider a young man, furthering his education, really doesn't try and speak to you because I'm uncomfortable in a way, and am not interested to try and cause physical violence to you for no good reason? Also, why hide racism? Why not just come out and say it as a woman? It's a lot to do in point as well, that if I see a man putting his hands on a woman, I look the other way cause it's not my business. The only woman who I would fight for and keep safe was my mom. Is this just certain ethnicities way of getting back at me because I made it clear I don't find them attractive?

I feel for you dude! Though, I think some of your train of thought can be linked back to a slight insecurity; every single white women that stands by you may not be a total snake; maybe they are actually interested! By your description it seems that you are running into the path of flirty women. I don't think these women have anything against you or your race. I think these women are just young and they are flirting for the heck of it. I realize it's pretty shitty thing to play around with a guy's heart but it happens. You just have to stand your ground and stay focused on your goals, which are awesome by the way. Now, if you really want to get a woman, I don't think you should stand around waiting for them to approach you; women like to be approached as it shows that the guy has confidence, and confidence is a major source of attraction for most women.

Good luck with everything!