by egann » Sat Jul 28, 2012 1:14 pm
Because she finds it erotic, fun and sexy. Maybe talk to her about it and explore your own feelings towards doing these things to her. Negotiation can be important in these situations, more than others. Do you have a safe word for her to use if seriously in distress? Do you know how to use a whip properly and to hit nice fleshy parts like the butt and thighs, never joints or the neck or the spine(holy hell that HURTS and not in a sexy way). Kink is fun! Kink can also be dangerous. It's kinda like riding a motorcycle.