Why does this boy play me?

[adalwine]

His name is tony. We are child hood friends and we live like 3 houses down from each other. We are both going into high school this year but this whole thing started back in 6th grade. Basically, he wanted to be "friends with benefits" and I made the stupid choice of saying yes. I fell for him hard and he claimed he fell for me. We were basically dating but he never acually grew the balls to ask me out. And he was imbarresed to be seen talking to me. So of coarse there's the slutty friend who gets in the way and he falls for her, leaving me heart broken. But he cheats on her with me. And I feel super bad for doing so. But they break up blah blah blah and he comes back to me. Now its gotten so confusing. He dates other girls and does sexual things with them. Then he comes running back to me. Its like a cycle. We hang out all the time and he's always all over me and he tells me he loves me. But then he goes off and does **** with other girls. And he knows he's hurting me. I've told him many times and we've gotten into many fights. I'm in a different state visiting my mom right now and I compleatly stoped talking to him for about 2 months. But on my birthday I called him and he said how he missed me so much and how he loves me. He also damages my fathers property when I ignore him. I just need someone to help me out.

[advent]

Here's what you should do: Tell him to either just ask you out or forget about the "friends with benefits ****" it never works out. And if he has a girlfriend and he's doing all this other stuff with you behind their backs then it's obvious he's not someone you should want to date. I say this because if you know he's like that then he might do it to you if you guys every have the chance of going out. And he knows he's hurting you so ask him why he keeps doing it. And if he's damaging you father's property when you ignore him it's also obvious, again, that he';s not the one for you. He may tell you he loves you, but if he really did then he would have asked you out already, instead of being embarrassed to talk with you he'd be proud to talk with you. best of luck!!! :)