Why I don't want to have sex, but it seems right?

[deangelo51]

Well here it goes. I am a 16 year old male entering my junior year of high school, I am a varsity cross country runner and varsity wrestler. I also have honors and Ap classes that keep me very busy and out of trouble not to mention a job at a fast food joint. Not saying this because I am arrogant but for the sake of getting a better answer I am an attractive person and used to be a model. during the beggining of my softmore year i met an attractive girl ( my description wouldn't do her justice) in one of my Ap classes at first we talked in class a flirted here and there and became "study buddies" during the year. In which we would meet at a local coffe joint and go over our notes and flirt mostly and talk about each other and the latest news about each other soon then we texted each other almost every day flirting and sexting a little bit trading pictures. obiviously when we would study, there was sexual tension but no moves were made by me or her. then she spilled her beans to me over text saying she wanted to have sex with me and her speaking to me in person "your the only guy ive ever loved at our school" at first i overjoyed at hearing this but there are some things are bothering me. first she isnt a virgin and has had sex with more than one person who are older than me. but I am a virgin (but have had oral sex and other stuff by others)I like her to much for this to bother me that much just makes me feel like I wont be "the one" who took her V card but shell take mine on the other hand she wishes i could have been the one to take hers. Also I dont want to embarress myself if I **** her because that always crosses my mind when i think about that...I already know that i will suck at sex but i dont think she would even care if i am. Also it seems everyone makes fun of me for not having had sex already between my wrestling freinds and other buds at my school saying "take that girl to poundtown" ahahah and other **** like that but im always hesitant to do the action even though i want to. also hearing stories of my freinds makes me jealous that im not having sex but i know i could in a second with a girl i care about

[chason58]

If she's really the girl you say she is, then she either A. Won't mind that you have these anxieties, or B. Wouldn't mind waiting, if that's what you want to do. She knows that if you're a virgin, you don't know what to do. If she does mind waiting or doesn't understand, then she may not be for you. As for your wrestling buddies and whatnot, forget them. Just laugh it off. Girls are really swept away when they find a guy who has waited. Just saying.

BTW: Where on earth do you go to school? I'm sixteen and in AP classes and going into my junior year and guys do NOT act that way at my school, especially the "jocks". Anyway. Hope this helps! Good luck!