Would girls find these qualities attractive? Need answers from girls only!!?

[freedom97]

I have been wanting a girlfriend bad lately(yes, even strong guys get emotions), and I've wondered as to why I don't have a girlfriend. No I don't have a 6 pack, but I do have beefy, thickly arms with veins on every square inch from forearms to bis and tris. Im not fat, just have that stocky build. I have a buzzed Mohawk as well. I guess you could say im somewhat of the "tough guy" who will beat the **** out of someone without any hesitation. Im a bodybuilder and a guy whos life revolves around fitness and eating right. Im not a partier or recreational drug consumer like the 70% of kids my age.I am nice to girls, they just don't like me as far as a boyfriend. Why don't girls like me? I'm 16 btw.

[chavivi]

Yes, most girls find it attractive if a guy is in shape and also if someone who is as disciplined as you when it comes to staying away from the party and drug scene. But in terms of having a girlfriend at the moment, well I think you just answered your own question. You say your 'whole life revolves around fitness', now I'm not sure if that current committment would allow any more room for a girl?

Say you did get a girlfriend, then you know you may have to drop your standards when it comes to fitness, because other things become a priority when you have to make time for someone else, which is just inevitable as you get older and marry and have kids. Otherwise you better find a girl who can live with and supports your current lifetyle as it is.

You say you want a girlfriend, but do you really need one at this point. You are 16 and I think you have plenty of time to find a girlfriend that's just right for you later down the track. At 16, girls will come and go and everybody is usually into partying and experimenting, and that may not be what you want to do. Maybe just try and have fun and be friends with girls for now, there is no rush.

[voliny13]

Yes, most girls find it attractive if a guy is in shape and also if someone who is as disciplined as you when it comes to staying away from the party and drug scene. But in terms of having a girlfriend at the moment, well I think you just answered your own question. You say your 'whole life revolves around fitness', now I'm not sure if that current committment would allow any more room for a girl?

Say you did get a girlfriend, then you know you may have to drop your standards when it comes to fitness, because other things become a priority when you have to make time for someone else, which is just inevitable as you get older and marry and have kids. Otherwise you better find a girl who can live with and supports your current lifetyle as it is.

You say you want a girlfriend, but do you really need one at this point. You are 16 and I think you have plenty of time to find a girlfriend that's just right for you later down the track. At 16, girls will come and go and everybody is usually into partying and experimenting, and that may not be what you want to do. Maybe just try and have fun and be friends with girls for now, there is no rush.

I think it's more so that your intimadating to girls. You just might also be looking at the wrong girls. And another thing if girls see that your life revolves around fitness then they think that you won't have time for them so just so them the guy out of the gym not in it, because most girls don't want the gym guy they want the fun guy. if you know what i mean.

[stein74]

You gave us all of the details about your body, but what about your personality? Sure girls are totally into your body type,you sound pretty hot, but that doesn't mean anything if you don't have the personality. Girls are into sensitive guy who stand out from the crowd. It sounds like you do since you mentioned not being a druggie/ partier. Just continue to be you and an awesome girl will find you. Don't change or pretend to be something you're not to impress anyone. When the right girl does come, don't dive into the relationship too fast.

[collyer]

I can honestly say I have no idea ..

I would date you if I knew you !

I'm not saying youre anti-social , but have you tried talking and flirting with a girl you would want to date?

I mean not all girls are going to be at your every move talking to you, asking how your day has been. ( I know I'm over-exaggerating )

All I m saying is talk to girls, be social !

Hope this helped a little bit :)

[colten]

I can honestly say I have no idea ..

I would date you if I knew you !

I'm not saying youre anti-social , but have you tried talking and flirting with a girl you would want to date?

I mean not all girls are going to be at your every move talking to you, asking how your day has been. ( I know I'm over-exaggerating )

All I m saying is talk to girls, be social !

Hope this helped a little bit :)

How do u kno if girls Dnt like you? They're not jus going to go up to u and admit they like you right off the bat. But u can make it easier for them to do it. B funny they love to laugh and talk to them very often that way they'll trust u and feel more open to tell u things and from their u both will have a thing goin on

[forde]

less 'i'm a beefy hunk' and more on the personality. Attractive is nice and all but any girl worth your time will want more than arm candy. And just a lil fyi you find better girls off the drugs you find slutty one night stands with drugs

[devon]

ewwww, i guess some girls like the muscley-look but to me, thats a turn OFF. and i kinda don't even really like tough guys... i like sensitive, cute chill guys.

[mohammed47]

Try not to come off as so tough and strong, be more sensitive and be nicer to girls. Be sweet to them, affectionate, make them laugh, touch them SO gently, etc.

[parnell]

I am a man, infact i'm a Staff Sergeant in the Army and a proven leader of men on the battlefield. Here's what I think, if you'd like some perspective from a more experienced male.

I would be proud of my physical achievements were I you; however, I would cut the crap with talking about how you'd beat the whatever out of anyone at the drop of a hat. This gives the impression that you do not have much substance internally, and lack the discipline mentally to exercise restraint. Women won't tolerate too much foolish macho stuff. People in general appreciate a physically powerful person who uses their power for good.

Think on this: Lets say that you spend a great deal of time in a machine shop fabricating a weapon as you've spent time in the gym building your body. So, now you have a weapon which you choose to wield as you see fit. Would you take this weapon and begin killing people and expect folks to find this attractive. Indeed fear is a powerful and quick but flimsy tool, and you'll influence nobody in this way. Would it not be better to use this new found strength to become a deterrent to violence and an advocate for peace? I can guarantee you that the latter option would yield exponentially more female attention. You would likely become a role model for the men who surround you and uplift your peers, This is power! Any fool can use fear, because it is easy but yields no respect. And if you think it does then do a better job of observing your surroundings. People DO respect strength, but only so far as its in proportion to the wisdom with which its expressed or employed.

Girls like a strong Man, not a strong petulant boy who makes loud empty noises and looks angry.

It requires vastly more strength to exercise restraint and forethought.

So my man, if you give it a moments thought, since I took the time to write this, you'll be rewarded and applauded in life for your hard work and discipline. If not, then you'll be another muscular ****** who I'd never look upon as a peer.

Let the content of your person express your power and not your faux-hawk haircut.

Best of luck to you with the ladies.