Do you think my cousin is stupid and selfish, and annoying?

[tai38]

We live 6 hours away from each other but my family visit my relatives mostly every year. Since we were little I always felt intimidated by her because she intelligent, tall, skinny, talkative and can sweet talk to adults and get their full attention because she is very witty and my parents always praise her for that. For me, I am not smart, tall, talkative, witty, able to sweet talk to people an get good grades as her..

However, now I find her totally annoying and an idiot. I swear besides the stuff I mentioned above she is inconsiderate, selfish, doesn't think about what she says or does, doesn't care if she hurts others feelings or not, does what she wants to do instead of what others want, always wants attention, self-centered, and most of all says and does completely stupid things....

I went to visit her last week and I am still currently in her house and my b-day was couple days ago. I wanted to go clubbing since I never went clubbing in LA before and might as well live the moment, but she never once asked me what type of club I wanted to go to and suggested a club/lounge with house music and non-Asian. However, I wanted to go an Asian club and with hit music like top 40s since I am not very fond of house music. She still insisted in going to the lounge she chose and treated my club as a backup after I told her several times that this event might be pretty good. We went to my club anyways however because it was closer and she didn't have any sexy white clothes outfit (it was all dress in white party).

She was meddling while we were at the club and suggested that it be ok to ask the guys to buy me a drink and go dancing and refused to dance with only the two of us... I found her a bit cheap because it should be the guys to ask us to dance and not us asking them and asking them to buy us a drink. But anyways I hated the guy she chose and I disliked her course of action by shoving a random guy she chose for both of us.

I was a bit upset when we went to Salsa class/bar. This guy asked her to dance and again she insisted on finding me a guy to dance with me too. I was like omg r u serious? again? I was shaking my head because she was ridiculous and guess what? she shoved a smelly/creepy guy and just any random guy on to me. He was terrible and a creeper/pervert.. hug be from behind n smiled at me... If I shoved him onto her, she would be on my case and start blaming me. In fact, if I or another person makes a mistake that she doesn't like, she would blame me or that person. She knew that guy was smelly and creepy, yet she didn't do anything about it?!

Today, we went to a small island for a 1-day trip and she is so boring. I told her at least do something since there are other things she could do and she said she rather watch the view. She said you can't tell me what to do... I was saying that because you paid so much money to get to this island might as well do something to pass the time and have fun because you can observe views anytime/anywhere for free. I swear if it was me, she b saying dude! at least do something!... She drives me insane when she wants you to do something with her and you don't do it, she always responds in a perky way.

But dude today she deserved to be played by this guy cuz she's an idiot. A random guy came up to her to flirt with her and wanted us to hang out with them and go to a bar. She says are you guys gonna treat us to a drink? (again with the asking a guy for a drink; how cheap can she be?) The guys says sure of course, and asks her to take a photo with her and she allows him to keep putting her arms around her. The guy asked us to stay for the night at their hotel and we said we have to leave tonight and she still goes on about treating us a drink. So when we enter the bar, the guy ask her for her number and she says no. They leave! hahahahah.. I swear, she deserved to be played by them because she was such an idiot in playing their games. If I was her, I walk away and ignore.

Her friend and I was picking on her about it. I was picking on her more and I told her the the truth about guy's intentions is to get laid and I think all girls know that. She tries to play it cool and says Well! you guys said you were cold. We might as well have something to do and stay out of the cold! I was like omg... guys will think we're cheap if we play their games like that I told her that it seemed like she was chasing after them and she should let the guy chase after us. If you say no, then will come crawling on your shoulder and begged... Why be so cheap and ask a guy to buy you a drink? Go buy it yourself cuz all my girl friends do unless a guy offers. I never bought my drink nor did I ever ask because guys always offers. If you ask them, they think you're gold digger and doesn't make girls valuable. Gosh must she be so cluelessly dumb?

[adamka]

sounds like a dumb, blonde, trashy slut to me.

[ailwyn]

Definitely a stupid.

[jung-hwa75]

Jee ! Your cousin must really be anoying !! Just be urself...