Help!!!! Christmas Dinner?

[christos]

Im married with no kids n for the holidays my husband n i always eat ay his mom house n then visit my family second even tho my family always make plans ahead of her. We always have to eat n im always gettin little to eat at her house cuz i wana sit and eat with my family. So i try not to b to full. My family is attending my church tomorrow n right after its dinner. My mother in law knew this n jus called sayin shes cookin n want the two of us to *** to her place. Im sick of puttin my family second for holidays n im hella sick of husband who jus cant b honest with his mom nstead of trying to please her. Should i tell em he can go n im goin to my family house...... Mother in law jus ruined my christmas eve