My girlfriend is going to have dinner with her guy friend alone.?

[achban]

My girlfriend told me a few months ago that her friend she met when she was an exchange student and she hasn't seen in two years was flying up for the holidays and wanted to hang out with her. my first reaction was that I trust my girlfriend and I was ok with it then, and respected the fact she told me instead of trying to hide it from me, I also reminded her my policy on cheating and that I would be gone never to be seen again if anything happened.

From what she has told me about him and from what I gathered I am not sure if I trust HIM. For one thing the first time she introduced me to this dude via skype he was in new york on vacation in a hotel room with his parents ... the first comment he made about me was "Let me judge how much he is worth, I can tell just by looking at him.." he really had no comment after making that comment. I didn't know if he was trying to be rude or trying to make an awkward joke but I just rolled with it.

My girlfriend is also telling me how wealthy this guy is and how much money his parents and him have and about all his cars and estates, she also claims he parties with Justin Timberlake in Miami night clubs. I just kind of roll my eyes, as she made me feel like just a broke mid 20 year old something that drives a new but mediocre ford and hasn't accomplished much except making more debt for him self.

I got to creeping on this guys facebook as a concerned boyfriend would and first of all he is wearing what looks like an expensive suit in his profile picture, with the background cropped out like he was suppose to be someone famous or something, I showed one of my friends his profile and my friends first reaction was "Anyone who wears a suit in their facebook pic is more than likely a douche bag" He posted on my GF's wall a few times saying that he booked his flight and was coming up to see her like he was all important. He tagged her in a picture to of some expensive looking sports car along with some other girl, which my girlfriend un-tagged her self in and removed from her profile, which I assumed because she didn't want me to see it. Some more creeping showed that he claimed to be a recent graduate of a law school and worked in a public defenders office.

Today they are going to have dinner alone without me, I told my girlfriend that I trusted her and I am ok with it but was quite short about anything else. She called me and told me that they were going to have dinner at fridays and he was trying to decide which car to pick her up in?... lol are you kidding me?

Should I be concerned even though I trust her? right now this guy just seems like such a fake desperate douche my thoughts are she will meet him after two years remember how big of a fake douche he was then appreciate that shes dating down to earth me, even though I just drive a mediocre new car and make an average salary for a entry level programmer.

PS. I work for a respectable family that actually does have money and they don't act like hot shots. In fact my millionaire boss really likes me and just told me the other day he likes my potential and has big plans for me.

[jabin20]

If you trust your girlfriend, then no. I don't think you have anything to worry about. From what you said, she seems like a good, honest girl. This guy does sound like a douche, he could like your girlfriend and he could not. But I'm guessing your girlfriend already sees through this whole thing and that's why she's with you. Your down to earth. Yes, celebrities have us on our toes and sometimes our eyes glaze over with their fame and fortune, but who wants to actually be with someone like that? We also like what's real and you sound as real as it can get. Your girlfriend probably know she has something special, so trust her to reject this douche if he tries anything funny.

[curran]

It sounds like he has the hots for her and she knows it. She is going to let this one play out but her mind is definitely not made up on which of you she prefers. Trust your gut here, you know what's going on. Women think they are sneakier than they are, they just usually get away with it because we need them so much. She's trying to be the trophy here that you two fight over, if you don't fight you lose, if you do you lose. Is she worth it?

[laureano97]

I think you are absolutely right. I think this guy is fake. He is probably lying about having all of these things to impress your gf for whatever reason. Most people who are rich dont go around broadcasting it to everyone. So he could be using that to get girls or friends. He spunds real fake i think hes trying to put moves on your girlfriends and she seems to enjoy being his friend just for social status. I mean so what he partied with Justin
Timbeelake. He prob was just at the same club as a Justin. Who really cares. He is a douche hes wack. He uses money to hide behinds his low self-esteem. Smh

[ludano17]

I would not even kiss her goodbye. Tell her to have fun and don't come back!!!