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How do i deal with a controlling nosey sister in law?

How do i deal with a controlling nosey sister in law?

Postby morcan » Sat Dec 17, 2011 3:25 am

She is always in our business telling other people our business she has talked about me behind my back to her family she has called me names she has absolutely no reason to not like me we finally got into an argument after two years and now that my son is in the picture she has nothing to do with him and expects her brother my husband to defend her and divorce me because they are family, I can't go to my mother and father in laws because she wants to fight me, any advice?
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How do i deal with a controlling nosey sister in law?

Postby jerrick » Sat Dec 17, 2011 3:31 am

Surely you husband is aware of this. The relationship of man, wife, and son should be held above a sister. Your husband should never allow his sister to treat his wife and son this way. His allowing her to treat you this way is bad enough. I could live with that. But when it comes to my child, he would have an ultimatum. No one wants any child to be raised with family who is so evil.
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Postby eliot » Sat Dec 17, 2011 3:36 am

well, if your husband doesn't put your first and foremost, you might as well pack it in. been there and done that. your husband has a great chance here to really show you the importance of the relationship or the lack of importance. you can push him and you may win the battle but in the end you may lose the war. he needs to do this because it is the thing to do for you. you are supposed to be first waaaay ahead of a meddling sister in law. doesn't sound good to me. sorry.
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Postby valentino » Sat Dec 17, 2011 3:45 am

Invite your in-laws to your house. Ignore her.

You say she has absolutely no reason not to like me - seriously? honestly? Look - she has a reason - you may not be aware of it, you may not agree with it, you may not like it - heck, it might not even be factual - but trust me - she has her reasons
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Postby camdin90 » Sat Dec 17, 2011 3:50 am

Your husband needs to step in at this point. Your child is going to have some type of relationship with his grandparents and this will be awkward for you. She needs to be put in her place and he is the proper person to do it.
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Postby iomar » Sat Dec 17, 2011 4:00 am

Tell your husband to nut up and take control of his sister or you can always just kick his sisters *** and shut her up that way :)
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Postby teithi71 » Sat Dec 17, 2011 4:05 am

how bizarre that adults have to worry about being attacked physically by a family member like that

weird family and your husband shoulda shut that down with her a long time ago!
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Postby dubh35 » Sat Dec 17, 2011 4:08 am

Are u gypsy?
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