Is this stalkish behavior? ?

by **motega** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:10 am

I met a Guy we both were driving when we saw each other we let our windows down and exchange numbers. So we only text a couple times since than. Like month later we seen each other foe not even five minutes I gave him a hug Ans we departed. So he has been calling me baby, asking to take me on trips, wanting to pay my speeding ticket, and trying to buy me a puppy. He said to me he knows were to find me if he wants to see me, he knows were I work! And he keep saying he miss me and if I miss him?!?! How can I miss him.... what do I do on this situation?

by **sayre** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:11 am

It's on the borderline, If it makes you uncomfortable or scared to go about your day then you may need to take steps to make sure you are safe. However, he may just really like you and if you don't return the feelings tell him. Via text. It seems like confronting him may be a bad idea. If you tell him to leave you alone and continue to see him "stalking" you then its time for the police to get involved.

by **jerrick** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:12 am

In my opinion, I would take that as stalkish behavior. You said you've really only know him for a month and he was to take you on trips, pay speeding tickets, and get you a puppy? I find that very odd and stalkish

by **darik** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:18 am

yeah the guy is definitely a stalker and is getting obsessed with you but wanting to get you all that stuff and knowing where you work and where to find you, etc. u need to not talk to him again and just ignore him. stay away from the guy.

by **colfre** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:22 am

Yes, I agree with cool... He is creeping on you. Try to avoid all contact possible. If he goes where you work call the police. Tell your coworkers about him so if they see him they know to get him to avoid you.

by **montrel68** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:24 am

Stalker!!!! you need to break all contact! and if he persists, let him know that you are willing to take legal action if he doesn't stop bothering you,

by **wilbart** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:44 am

Tell him it makes you uncomfortable, stop talking to him, make sure you know his real name and people know about him in case he murders you.

by **garret** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:47 am

dump him u ve known him for like 5 min he wants to buy u puppy

by **tai38** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:54 am

no he wants to be with u

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