My child who was adopted found me on Facebook! What do do now?

[blaisdell]

I think any good christian woman would understand, talk to her adoptive mother, you are the adult, dont burden your daughter with this duty to come out with the truth, im certain if you speak with her she wont involve the authorities and perhaps you guys can make an off the record open adoption policy

[hwistlere31]

I was coerced into surrendering my son so a different story to yours. I found my son through Genes Reunited so in that respect I do understand what you're going through. Be honest with your daughter and take your time. It is too easy to want to rush but don't as you both need time to process your reunion. Wishing you well!

[werner72]

Look... many things happen to our lives and we go through it.. however... the happiness is the concern thing to be assured in your daughters life... if it makes her happy and strong please do no hesitate to keep in touch with her... and if you think it will be her weakness and slow her down in real life... please avoid contacting her... the main theme is... Choice is yours to make her happy or sad!