My girlfriend wants to end our relationship. What do I do?

[dureau]

I have been in a long distant relationship with this girl I met online for about 2 months and today when I woke up, logged into facebook this is what she said Listen, idk how to word this but right now I'm just not in the right mental state to have a boyfriend. You deserve someone much better than me cause I absolutely suck at being a girlfriend. I can't handle everything that's going on right now and need to focus on my own mental health
.. Later she goes and tells me that when she sent me the message saying that she wanted to end it, she felt it was the right thing to do but when I messaged her saying hi, she felt like taking back what she said. Her grandma said that it's not really dating if we're not going on dates and she ACTUALLY agreed with her grandma. Whereas her mom said the opposite and told her not to end the relationship. She says that she doesn't see any possible future between me and her. She is going to Korea to teach and I will be in Canada study law enforcement. I mean if she really loved me she would say something like "anything is possible, we can work this through" I mean when we first met she really wanted things to work out and was looking in the future, but i guess this whole damn relationship was just a joke. ATLEAST that's what I'm getting out of it. She said that it's not my fault. Later this is what she says: it just seems like i can't ever be happy in a relationship....i'm not saying YOU don't make me happy cuz you definitely do....but idk why my depression is coming back
yesterday i barely ate anything
.. I really love her, and no matter what I will always love her. Please I need many people to help me.

[zadok]

I have been in a long distant relationship with this girl I met online for about 2 months and today when I woke up, logged into facebook this is what she said Listen, idk how to word this but right now I'm just not in the right mental state to have a boyfriend. You deserve someone much better than me cause I absolutely suck at being a girlfriend. I can't handle everything that's going on right now and need to focus on my own mental health
.. Later she goes and tells me that when she sent me the message saying that she wanted to end it, she felt it was the right thing to do but when I messaged her saying hi, she felt like taking back what she said. Her grandma said that it's not really dating if we're not going on dates and she ACTUALLY agreed with her grandma. Whereas her mom said the opposite and told her not to end the relationship. She says that she doesn't see any possible future between me and her. She is going to Korea to teach and I will be in Canada study law enforcement. I mean if she really loved me she would say something like "anything is possible, we can work this through" I mean when we first met she really wanted things to work out and was looking in the future, but i guess this whole damn relationship was just a joke. ATLEAST that's what I'm getting out of it. She said that it's not my fault. Later this is what she says: it just seems like i can't ever be happy in a relationship....i'm not saying YOU don't make me happy cuz you definitely do....but idk why my depression is coming back
yesterday i barely ate anything
.. I really love her, and no matter what I will always love her. Please I need many people to help me.

im sorry but if she really did love you she would have tryed to save your relationship and long distance relationships dont work just try to move on and do things to keep your mind off of it and im really sorry again ):

[mate]

I know you really care about her but your going to have to let her go. if she want it to be over then that's how it should be. Trust me if she wants it over and you pressure her staying she will end up cheating and both of you will be hurt. let her go. if it was meant to be she will come back.

[emek]

Ok let me first start by saying CALM DOWN! Its obvious she is afraid. She has probably had bad experiences in the past that make her worry and over think any possible future with you. And considering long ditance relationships are a chalange by them selves, the distance the two of you have is only making her worry more. The best thing you can do right now is to reasure her of your feeling for her. Remind her that she is the only one for you and that you are not going anywhere. Let her know that if time is what she needs then she can have as much as she wants. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DONT PUSH HER OR YOU WILL MAKE HER RUN. Be there for her emotionally and get her to open up to you at her own pace. When she starts to push away give her some space but always stick around. Be patient and understanding always!!!