I went out on Family Medical Leave act last year when my husband fell ill. Now, my work had previously had wanted me gone. I was absent a lot, and late because I am his caretaker. And although i was protected, it still made them resent me highly. So, last year, I took several months off, becuase he was very sick. I submitted to them proper documentation from the doctor, and was approved the leave. However, during my absence, they found a way to get me fired. They sent paperwork, very important paperwork to my mother's home, (I dont get along with my mom, my supervisor knew this, and knew i would never see this).. The paperwork was very time sensitive, and since I didnt respond to this paperwork, they had thier excuse to fire me. I believe that I cannot be fired under FMLA for being absent becuase of an illness. However I believe also that I can be fired if it is not related, like in this case, they claim my negligence in giving them documentation requested, means that it is not directly related. I think it was a pretty low down thing to do. And, to top it off, I filed for Unemployment, and my Company (I work for the state of california by the way for 19 yers) is vehemently fighting that I dont get this. I have barely enough money now for food, and have lost my house, and my car, and we are in appeals court fighting this. I think I was unjustly let go, and therefore I think after 19 years, I am entitled to unemployment. Thier arguement is that I didnt keep in good contact with them, and that I didnt give them the documentation they requested. I also didnt show up for an appointment with my supervisors that they scheduled, and mailed to my mom's house once again.
I have been fighting this, and fighting this, and I will have another hearing in a couple weeks. But, I am exhausted, and just want to move on. Does anyone out there know the laws in CA? about unemployment? FMLA? Anyone ever appeal thier unemployment decision? And, did you win it? If I dont have much of a chance (my employer has high dollar attorneys, I cant barely afford the gas to get to the hearing, let alone an attorney!) Any advice anyone can give me? The one thing I have to admit to being guilty about is that I really probably shouldve stayed in better contact. I did tell them that I would be out indefinently, with a "Hopeful" return date in Febrauary 2009. I didnt think to really check in but twice during that time. I do know they were sneaky about it, no doubt. So, being that I didnt do everything right either, do I have a shot, or is it not worth fighting these big companys and governments?

