Question about nikah...?

[armin]

Alsalamalikum


Before you read it, I want only Muslims to answer. Thank you.

I have alot thing to say. Ok, my guy and I want to marry together, but problem is I live in USA and he is in Pakistan. We are both mature, adult. We will meet each other in real later after nikah. I meet the guy two years ago online and I'm still with him. We both are serious about marry together. I meet his family and his parents. His parents know me and I know them. His parents love to have me as their daughter in law. They quickly agree with our marriage. After that, I asked my parents and tell them about guy. They quickly disagree. I keep trying to get my parents agree and none work at all. I told my parents to talk with him for one time and they refused. It just make me very sad. Anyway that short story of what happen.

Today I discussed with my guy about doing our nikah on Skype. My guy ( I normally always called him as my husband because want to think of him as my husband) anyway we want to do nikah because we believe maybe that my parents have to agree with us. What would we do is on his side, his father, two withness and imam will be with him for nikah and on my side, two female withness, one male withness, lawyer and imam be there for nikah. Once when we done with nikah. Then I decided to go tell my parents that we did the nikah so they could allow us be together.

So my question is if we go through all this stuffs for nikah, then will our nikah be vaild? I want our nikah to be vaild.
Also my guy and I decided to do oath paper each month. What we did is that we create oath paper together like we promise with Allaah name in it. We make wallaah promise to each other that we will take each other as husband and wife til to death then after that we both signed it. We did it once a month. None of my or his family know about oath paper we did except guy's sister know it.

Sorry for long detail. I really just need help. I'm worry alot. Thank for ur time. We are serious about it.