Long story short: I gave birth to my first child and was left with a small portion of the placenta still attached to the inside of my uterus. This went undetected until almost a month later amid my almost constant complaints of pain and bleeding which were in the meantime attributed to a uterine infection 10 days after the birth. When an ultrasound finally revealed the retained placenta, I was scheduled for a D&C the next morning. During the procedure, my uterus was ruptured which would have explained the strange symptoms I experienced after the procedure had I been informed of it. I called the doctor twice in the 2 weeks following the surgery and there was no concern or need for a followup sooner than 3 weeks out. The Saturday morning after the second call my symptoms had escalated and been accompanied by a virus which was frightening because I not being a doctor could not distinguish that from the systemic infection I knew by this point I had been placed at risk for. At the prompting of a nurse we know, I went to the emergency clinic who then referred me to the emergency room for tests they could not do - specifically a CT scan. This revealed a pooling of blood next to the uterus where I had been feeling the unexplained pain that they had no explanation for but said it wasn't serious. When I followed up with my doctor the following Monday, I was told that it could only be a result of intestinal gas and everything was fine. I was told that the shoulder pain I had for a week after the procedure that was identical to the pain I had with my previous gallbladder removal was also referred pain from intestinal gas. I was specifically told that there was no way that there could have been any air in my abdominal cavity after the surgery. I didn't find out until later that week at a second opinion with another doctor that in the surgery notes it was stated that the doctor suspected a uterine rupture during the procedure, but was not able to find it. I learned then that this would explain the pelvic and shoulder pain.
I understand that given the risks of retained placenta, I was very fortunate not to have developed any more problems than I did. However, this disrupted our lives for months and filled the first few months of my time with my new baby with fear. It has led to more than $10,000 in extra medical bills for which I am being held responsible. A large portion of those bills is the emergency room, which could have been easily avoided simply by taking my concerns seriously and being honest about what had happened.
I have been told that I will probably just have to pay for this, because malpractice is so hard to prove and this is a difficult state for it. I don't expect any help(or honesty) from the doctor without it being forced. I thought I should check on this one more time before going that route for 2 reasons: 1. Ten thousand dollars seems to be a pretty high price for the privilege of 2 months of pain, bleeding and fear. 2. Paying for it and saying nothing seems tantamount to sending the doctor a note confirming that she can get away with anything and gee I sure hope nobody dies next time.
Is this something you think I should and/or a lawyer would pursue or should I just suck it up and be more selective next time?

