Hi,
I know your time is valuable and I am so grateful for any help you can give me so I'll try to summarize this briefly:
april 12th - delivery of child with extreme pain between contractions, low fetal heart tones, rapid heart beat, etc. Doctor delivered baby quickly and she is fine, for which I am very grateful. He then sent me off to check for a pulmanary embolism, which came up negative. I continued to have a lot of bleeding and extreme pain for the next 48 hours(including a large clot expelled of 6in in diameter), but they released me anyway - no clear malpractice to this point in my opinion.
April 15 - called the doctor and told him of my continued excuciating pain, bleeding and sweating. He set an appointment for me the next morning.
April 16 - called doctor in the morning when pain became unbearable and I was feeling uncomforable waiting at home for my appointment so he told me to go to the ER. I went to the ER and they did a CT scan that showed "hereogeneous preseumed clot interposed between the uterus and bladder measuring 12cmx8cmx4cm" and "moderate complex acites likely secondary to hemorrhage given the location of the clot". The ER doctor said he spoke to my OB about this and they decided it was ok to send me home with 'symtomatic care' on my part, ie, return if I have a fever and don't have a bowel movement. They did not advise me of the clot at this point - they just told me I was constipated and that was the source of my pain.
April 16, PM - April 26 Called the doctors office AT LEAST once a day with continued symptoms(pain, bleeding, swelling, and later fevers, chills, vomiting). Finally, on April 26 the doctor did an ultrasound to check on the that clot they found in the ER(this was my first knowledge of this clot). The ultrasound now showed a clot/abcess of 24cmx12cmx8cm extending all the way up my side. April 27 surgery that resulted in hysterectomy at age 29(we wanted more kids and now have to adopt), bowel and bladded damage(still causing me incontinance/IBS, which I never had before), extensive abdominal wall damage(my abdomen was covered with gangrene due to the infection that grew during this time when the uterus was hemorhaging, which is causing constant hernias requiring surgical repair and my abdominal muscals have 'gone to sleep' in the words of my physical therapist), adhesive disease and huge issues with scar tissue(which is very extensive due the nature of the spread infection) that causes me constant, chronic pain every day.
Have you ever heard of such a thing? I have talked to 3 OB doctors now that say you 'never' release a patient with a clot between the uterus and bladder, especially and VBAC patient as this is clear sign of uterine rupture of scar dehiscence at the least(both which require immediate surgical repair if the patient wants more children). I can't decide what to do as you know as well as I(and probably better) that this can get very expensive if we don't win.

