Should I have a sexual relationship with this 50 year old multi-millionaire?

by **madison86** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:20 am

*I want serious, non-bias advice only. If your answer is going to be out of spite, jealousy, or random dumbness please don't answer*

I'm 21. He's about 50. Huge age gap, I know. I am a dancer (stripper) and recently tried out a new club. A customer walked up to me and told me I was the most beautiful girl he's ever seen, and bought an hour VIP with me. We talked the entire time. The next week, my manager called me and told me this customer came up to the club wanting to rent out the VIP room for the entire night. The club is an extremely long drive, but it's worthwhile because this man rents out the VIP room each time.

He is a multi-millionaire, and this has been confirmed by several sources, including my managers (I also google him and saw his business that he ownss. He has about 20 cars. Five Corvettes, a Viper on the way. He fell in love with a dancer at that club about a year ago and bought her a car, a condo, gave her tons of money, etc. But she was having sex with him.

Now he is deeply in love with me. He's spent a lot of money on me. We've gone on two dates and they went well. He gave me money to pay a lawyer so I can get my license back, and he says he's buying me a Camaro. But he wants to have sex. If I have a sexual relationship with him, he'd give me literally everything I want. I'm a college student and I owe my university 5K before I can return, he'd pay that easily. He'd pay off all my debts, give me a monthly credit card to spend money on when he's not around. I live in Detroit. He wants me to move in with him, but I told him I couldn't because he lives 2+ hours away and I have school, so he says he will move me into a luxury condo in downtown Detroit or the suburbs. This will all happen if we have a real relationship. He wants to eventually marry me.

This could be interpereted as a sugar-daddy type thing, I know. But I wouldn't cheat on him; if I were with him, I'd be with no one else. It's obviously true that if he weren't so rich he'd have no chance. But the couple of dates we've gone on, I've enjoyed. He's a cool guy. But since he's so much older, our relationship wouldn't last long. I'd probably end up leaving him after about 6 - 12 months and breaking his heart :(

What should I do? Have sex with him and have a relationship, so I can stop being a struggling college student and instead have my entire tuition paid for? Or just walk away?

by **delrico** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:21 am

If you like him than go for it...but if you just want the stuff in exchange for the sexual relationship..thats a decision YOU have to make..

by **philibert63** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:24 am

Too me, the age-gap would be too big an issue to ignore.

If you are honestly considering having sex with him just to get into college, then you should just walk away. You would be using him, and that would be morally wrong.

You also note that you wouldn't cheat on him, yet you would probably break up with him six months down the track. If you have no intention of sticking it out for the entire run, why would you forestall the inevitable for six months? Just to live in a luxury condo? It's not worth it.

Money doesn't buy you happiness. It also doesn't buy you love.

by **ricki** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:33 am

There is a world of difference between a stripper and a prostitute. By doing this? you will have just narrowed the gap between them.

Up to you but you wanted honest sensible answers that are completely unbiased. Thats mine.

by **osbourne** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:35 am

Many people would consider you to be a prostitute if you did this. Don't take advantage of this guy.

by **christos** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:37 am

You care about his money NOT him.
And he cares about the sex NOT you.

If you really want to then go for it, maybe somewhere down the line you'll fall in love with him, who knows!

But don't feel bad because you know you just want the money since he doesn't really care for you either.

by **jolie95** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:38 am

I say go for it if he makes you happy, but keep in mind that t his form of arrangement is really close to prostitution so ask yourself this question. Will you able to live with yourself when this relationship is over?

by **piaras91** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:41 am

As long as you are completely honest with the guy, I don't see a problem with two consenting adults doing whatever they please. But make sure that you remain honest throughout, that is the key. Its the dishonesty that makes you into a hustler, not the relationship.

by **gowan** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:50 am

I have met a very interesting man back when I danced in the clubs back in the late 1980's who has been a blessing in my life. We have remained in touch with each other ever since. We both know that we will never be an actual couple and I'm okay with that. He has done sooo much for me and always treats me with respect and admiration. Best of all, he's really good in bed! LoL

by **bernd** » Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:54 am

hii !
welll if he's awesome go for it girl !
I'm 17, and my boyfriend is 41 years old ,we've only been dating for a few months, but we have soooo much fun together ! my boyfriend started out as a " sugar daddy " as well, and we're moving in together this summer ! I love this man to tears .
and i found that older men , know how to treat a girl, go for it ,try it out ! what do you have to loose ! go get spoiled ;)

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