What to do when husband always favour for his childhood family,and ignore my feelings.i wan my respect pl help?

[fyfe]

i'm 21 year old,2years passed of my marriage,after marriage i become tuberculosis patient,and my life start to spoil,i am a scholar science student but through depression and tension i got fail in my collage exam,at the same time when i was ill,as obvious my in laws have some dream about me,tht i will serve them n all.. but atleast for some time i fail to do it,cause of my disease,at same time they start to ignore me,and for father in law and sister in laws personal ego,they had not allow my husband to meet me or talk to me for one month when i was in btwn live or die.i need him so much,i bag him for care too,i love him so much but he never favour for me.dur to this one image created in my mind tht he will never care for me.though i started my marriage life again with him,and i complete graduation with second class.. i do all my household work easily,even when i was taking madicine i was serving my inlaws for getting their respect,but always they criticize me like u can't be a better wife,u have to do this or tht for ur husband,my husband have 4 sisters and all r live with us though they r married.they all have some or some problem with their husband and in in laws.4 sisters and mother sometime make my life misserable.i accept tht i dnt have exprience like them about marriage life,but they always try to feeling me down and guilt.his sister always tell me tht we do this for ur husband,he have to serve me.he is not giving money at home.all four are doing job but my husband and my parent in laws also do not allow me to do master,they advice me to serve my husband and them.i feel so uncomfortable and feeling like m cheated by them.they are not behaving right at me.they also told my husband my small mistakes.my mother in law is instructive and everytime control my husband with crying,she sometime make misunderstanding in between me and my hubby,also my father in law have very short tempered nature,they are manupulative for their rigid rules,and also scold my father,mother,bhai bhabhi in front of me.and behind me lottttss off. they told my husband to not to respect my parent and my husband always do the same.my parents also feeling like m not safe and happy with this atmosphere,and they made big mistake in choosing my life partner,but they are listening all cause of my life.they thought if we will say something to my daughter's in laws they will harash my child. and it is true.my in laws do the same,and even my husband.they all make me feel guilt for my any oppose.now i am a housewife,i accept that i can not be like my friends,i accept that my husband will never understand my wish,but how i sacrifice him? my mother in law and father in laws strictly want that me and my husband seprately call them twice in a day.if i miss to call my mother in law she complain my husband and my husband also take it seriously and fight with me.small small issue making my life unbelieveable. i am feeling like my every dreams are broken and my life never be happy.i cant understand that 4 plus my parent in laws, what are they want? and how i make my life happy and warm?how i make understand my husband that he is not doing right with me.you and your family hurting me a lot,thats why i cant feel comfortable with your family,i want some care and respect,and love in your family.plz advice me how i solve this problem??

[hewlett]

idk

[koltin]

You have expressed yourself, precept by precept and you can't do it by yourself, you need the help that only God, in Jesus Christ can do for you. You have studied for science and that has its place, but it is like putting the horse to push the carriage, instead of pulling the carriage, you are very intelligent and you should immediately read The Gospel of Jesus Christ, and proclaim HIS DEATH and BLOOD Atonement for your sins, and believe in HIS OBEDIENCE unto The Crucifixion, and Resurrection, obey HIS WORD, and He shall set you free indeed, and all your husbands relatives too, with GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE IN GOD, THROUGH JESUS CHRIST...and your in-laws, will not be in-laws but your Sisters and Brothers In Jesus Christ...

I was working as an Master Electrician, for an Electronic Factory, It was noon, the middle of the day.
I was walking down the middle of an aisle, when the firmament of the heavens, spun into a pillar
and split into a curtain and drew up, revealing Jesus Christ, seated, intently looking at me, as
six others approach HIM, and gathered behind HIM, dressed in "WHITE GOWNS", the Glory of God
all around them, they smiled, and the heavens closed as they had opened."