6-Year Old Girl Abused By Exhusbands Today And Partner Relative

[jarl]

I've been wrapped up in litigation right now for about four years simply because of my ex husbands partner verbally and gently in fact destroying my six-year old youngster. My ex husband refused to consider it, really contacting our youngster a liar. Sadly my child nonetheless needs to go pay a visit to him for summer time till we are capable to place this up in court. Is peculiar and removed when my daughter returns her conduct. We're right now residing in a relatives property that is a 4-year old horror. The only real time this kid is happy is when he's whipping on my girl, or smashing and receiving something of hers and could even move within our areas to get what he demands. His grandma(her home) and his parents, just control him with "end or you will go to time-out" as soon as they do access it to him. Usually, they tell my youngster to prevent crying and to not strike him back due to the fact she's older and knows much better. Due to the fact of finances, we can not re-find. I am really fed up with this,right now occurring on both ends. So what can I actually do?

[Lawe]

Yeah, things are difficult all over. Listen, continuing to live there tends to make YOU an accessory to abuse. Do want ever you have to do, what ever it takes to get out of there. Get in touch with each and every church, or social agency in your area and ask for assist. If you do not want your daughter to group up hating you for the rest of her life, and screwed up to boot, do what I am telling you to do. And about summer visits to her dad, that is bullsh.., if she's becoming physically or emotionally abused you are obligated to NOT send right here there, and let him go to court and explain to the judge what is going on. Of course you will insist that she be interviewed by a court appointed youngster psychologist. Let him know that is what you strategy to do, and do not send her there Any longer! You have only a single, and only 1 likelihood to show your daughter that she is the most important factor in your life. Screw this up and you will regret it for the rest of your days. Excellent luck, I hope you hear me, I've been there and I care about your kid.

[Ceastun]

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[Duer]

triplea said: 2 It is your responsibility to take care of your daughter and keep her from being harmed and it does not sound like you are doing a very good job in doing that. You do not have to send your daughter anywhere that she is being abused and that includes her dads house. And as far as the 4 year old he is just that a 4 year old. If it is that bad then you need to leave. Your little girl depends on you to take care of her because she cannot take care of herself. There is no way that I would send my daughter away for the summer when I knew she was being abused. 52 months ago

[Clyfland]

The reason she still has to go to visitation with her father because I previously denied visitation due to the abuse. I was sentenced with $20,000 in fines and 180 day suspended jail sentence. I could deny visitation again and go to jail for six months, but I figure that would do a lot less than the court systems are already doing. There was even a child psychologist that agreed that abuse had taken place and the Judge didn't want to hear it because the psychologist was out of state. So, CPS was called, there investigation lasted all of one phone call to the accused. I take my daughter to counseling, actively involved in church, school, and she is the top performer in her grade. So, I'm not doing that badly as a parent. My main concern was the four(almost) 5 year old being allowed to abuse her. His grandmother and parents allow it and don't discpline and punish my daughter for even saying he hit or kicked her. The only reason I am in my relatives house is because my finances are completely and I do mean completely tied up with all of the court proceedings. Unfortunately, her dad has money and she is too young for the Judge to want to talk to her. She is 6 and the legal age is 12. if she's being physically or emotionally abused you are obligated to NOT send here there, and let him go to court and explain to the judge what's going on. Of course you will insist that she be interviewed by a court appointed child psychologist. Let him know that's what you plan to do, and don't send her there ANYMORE! You have only one, and only one chance to show your daughter that she is the most important thing in your life. Screw this up and you will regret it for the rest of your days. Good luck, I hope you hear me, I've been there and I care about your kid.

[FIynn]

Just FYI, the reason she still has to go to visitation with her father because I previously denied visitation due to the abuse. I was sentenced with $20,000 in fines and 180 day suspended jail sentence. I could deny visitation again and go to jail for six months, but I figure that would do a lot less than the court systems are already doing. There was even a child psychologist that agreed that abuse had taken place and the Judge didn't want to hear it because the psychologist was out of state. So, CPS was called, there investigation lasted all of one phone call to the accused. I take my daughter to counseling, actively involved in church, school, and she is the top performer in her grade. So, I'm not doing that badly as a parent. My main concern was the four(almost) 5 year old being allowed to abuse her. His grandmother and parents allow it and don't discpline and punish my daughter for even saying he hit or kicked her. The only reason I am in my relatives house is because my finances are completely and I do mean completely tied up with all of the court proceedings. Unfortunately, her dad has money and she is too young for the Judge to want to talk to her. She is 6 and the legal age is 12.

[Nikolaus]

I mean this as well as I can, so let me try and be as sensitive as possible No parents or other friends or relatives you can be with during this time? No church friends or anything? Do you work enough to be able to find a cheap, maybe rent controlled apartment of your own?and what of child protective services, have they been called in?Look, this is a tricky place to ait these kinds of things out. Better to talk to a counselor and see what they might think. If you can't afford one, can I suggest talking to the pastor of a church? They usuallyhave a good head on their shoulders about these sorts of things Sources: my opinion awarulz 52 months ago Please sign in to give a compliment. Please verify your account to give a compliment. Please sign in to send a message. Please verify your account to send a message.

[Dave]

It is your responsibility to take care of your daughter and keep her from being harmed and it does not sound like you are doing a very good job in doing that. You do not have to send your daughter anywhere that she is being abused and that includes her dads house. And as far as the 4 year old he is just that a 4 year old. If it is that bad then you need to leave. Your little girl depends on you to take care of her because she cannot take care of herself. There is no way that I would send my daughter away for the summer when I knew she was being abused.

[Riocard]

newuser57897185 said: 3 Just FYI, the reason she still has to go to visitation with her father because I previously denied visitation due to the abuse. I was sentenced with $20,000 in fines and 180 day suspended jail sentence. I could deny visitation again and go to jail for six months, but I figure that would do a lot less than the court systems are already doing. There was even a child psychologist that agreed that abuse had taken place and the Judge didn't want to hear it because the psychologist was out of state. So, CPS was called, there investigation lasted all of one phone call to the accused. I take my daughter to counseling, actively involved in church, school, and she is the top performer in her grade. So, I'm not doing that badly as a parent. My main concern was the four(almost) 5 year old being allowed to abuse her. His grandmother and parents allow it and don't discpline and punish my daughter for even saying he hit or kicked her. The only reason I am in my relatives house is because my finances are completely and I do mean completely tied up with all of the court proceedings. Unfortunately, her dad has money and she is too young for the Judge to want to talk to her. She is 6 and the legal age is 12. 52 months ago