by montrel68 » Tue Dec 20, 2011 7:35 am
I tried online dating before I met my husband and never had good results. I think average people tend to get lost in the crowd. Everyone seems to want someone who is incredibly good looking, rich and entertaining. Also, many of the people online are dishonest and out of touch with reality. If they really had such great senses of humor, interesting lives and were taking such lovely hikes, wouldn't they run into their soul mates on the trail?
I was looking for a nice guy with your qualifications. I found that nice guys were too shy to speak to me. I had to ask my husband out. I'm sure glad I did!
I'd suggest that you just get brave and when you see a woman that you are interested in, just talk to her. Ask her non invasive questions about herself. Even just making eye contact and smiling is a good start. Also try to engage shy girls. Remember that a plain looking woman with a warm heart can always get dressed up and look like a million bucks for the man she loves!
Good luck!