I have my heart set on changing my name. it's more than just I don't like the last name.
I've struggled to accept it all my life because I love my family but I can't stand all the mental anguish the last name has caused me. our name sounds like an overweight anglo saxon and I want a beautiful name that reflects our Spanish heritage. I don't just want to change the name, I NEED to.
I live in North Carolina and they make everything hard here. North Carolina is a very hard place to live with stupid laws. I've researched things and discovered that they have to determine that you have sufficient reason to change it. It's stupid; in Florida it's so easy to change your name for desire. However I moved from Florida years ago and would be considered a foreigner if I went back now, even though I am from there.
I'm too miserable to wait until I get married and I think the tradition of taking the husband's name is degrading... it would make me feel like property. I want a special identity all my own.
I just know the court will give me a hard time about changing my name but I NEED to change it.
What do I do? What recourse do i have?

