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[montgomery69]

I have cought my wife flirting with my brother one night while they both did not see me and my brother closed the blinds while i sneeked up on them from the backyard!? they where alone in the sitting room and they both wanted to do some thing but was scared to break a move, They where alone in my house ...! Alone because I told them I was going to get some thing from the store and come back in couple of hours or so, I sneaked up on them from the back yard and heared her mone and flirt deeply with fear and agreement voice and intentions like you know what i mean.... and intentionly saying wooo woo wo and omg!!! now this thing makes me on fire, killing my inside slowly and i am very upsett!! I mean is she giving signs that she wants to do some thing with him and why is she doing that?... Would she do some thing with them you know better than me please advice is that a sign that girls want you to ask? Would she do it? She just gave birth and have 3 young children very recent... i mean is she going through some changes?
She also did the same with my brother in law infront of all my family, relatives and sisters, is she trying to say something here? i mean shes a burnett but my brother in law has the baby blues and she does not... as soon as i leave the room i acted like i left but i hide next to the door to hear every thing... and i heared and as soon as that happened it broke my heart into small pieces and i cant even kiss her any more! I dont like that unitentional stuff, she started hitting on him and given him signes of she wants him,like... just adding in a sentence " as soon as he's not home... which she means ME of course" to him directly... Does that means she wants that dude! and flirting with him publicly?! in front of her own father in law and mother in law and own family member of over 15 to 20! , please let me know what you think and if it's okay for her flirt?
help because this is destroying me slowly... should i divorce and what should i do with the kids? is she crazy?

[bercnan72]

It's not okay. The more she flirts, the more she's going to want and we all know where that can lead.

[geol19]

Definately not

[lalla3]

no its not ok to flirt.talk to her about it and clear things out. ask her what is the problem and why she is doing it becoz you wont get more correct answers anywhere else.

[claudius]

Stop hiding around corners and tell her that you don't like her behaviour. But is she the only one flirting? Is your brother not flirting back? Then you will have to talk to him as well and tell him that you don't want him at your house while you are not there.