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[tiernan]

Hey yahoo people, I need your help on this one, I have cought my wife flirting with my brother one night while they both did not see me and my brother closed the blinds while i sneeked up on them from the backyard!? they where alone in the sitting room and they both wanted to do some thing but was scared to break the move, They where alone in my house ...! Alone because I told them I was going to get some thing from the store and come back in couple of hours or so, I sneaked up on them from the back yard and heared her mone and flirt deeply with fear and agreement voice and intentions like you know what i mean.... and intentionly saying wooo woo wo and omg!!! now this thing makes me on fire and upsett!! I mean is she giving signs that she wants to do some thing with him... Would she do some thing with them ladies you know better than me please advice is that a sign that girls want you to ask? Would she do it? She just gave birth and have 3 young children very recent... i mean is she going through some changes?
She also did the same with my brother in law but infront of all my family, relatives and sisters, is she trying to say something is she a blond? i mean shes a burnett but my brother in law has the baby blues and she does not... you dont say please! as soon as i leave the room i act like that i left but i hide next to the door to hear every thing... and i heared and as soon as that happened it broke my heart into small pieces and i cant even kiss her any more as she keep sould talking to me and i dont like that unitentional stuff, she started hitting on him and give him signes of she wants him,like just adding in a sentence " as soon as he's not hime... which she means me of course" to him directly... that means she wants that dude! and flirting with him publicly?! in front of her own father in law and mother in law and own family member of over 15 to 20! all very close to me, please let me know what you think and if it's okay for her flirt or do you married woman do it to do it? pease help because this is destroying me slowly... should i divorce and what should i do with the kids? is she crazy? ladies i need your advice specialy because you know it better than men...

[bearchan]

No dear, YOU SHOULD KNOW HER FAR BETTER THAN ANY OF US? HOW COULD WE?

It doesn't sound good from where I sit as a woman, wife - it sounds like you two are VERY young. VERY insecure in your love for one another (at least, she is...)

-And you have children? Hm. Something isn't right. You two aren't communicating. You can's seem to call her out on it or your brother.

Are you in just a bit of a rush to divorce??? Ever heard of C O M M U N I C A T I N G first how you feel and what you witnessed?

Grace

[tate8]

It's definately not a reason for divorce.... marriges should be able to withstand anything short of cheating and physical abuse... that is the point of being married. maybe she doesn't even know she is doing it. My husband has a personality which is friendly with EVERYONE, both men and women..... some women used to take it as flirting. Sure enough, he approached me one day saying he got an email from a lady at work who switched departments saying "Hi, I hope you don't mind I got your email from the company directory. I just wanted to say hi and I miss sitting by you" He said it was weird and didn't know why she would do that. He didn't realize he was coming off as being flirty until I pointed it out to him, and let him know this behavior was going to get him in trouble

You should approach her, let her know how it makes you feel, then go from there.

[mads]

My ex wife used to flirt with every guy that was either in her vicinity or who she could get a hold of on the phone. I thought it was harmless as she slept in my bed. She then went on a "vacation" to help out one of her relatives. I found out afterward that she went to that location so that I would not be able to interfere with her intention to cheat on me. I would advise you to talk to your wife and tell her that her flirting is bothering you. If she agrees and stops flirting, you know that she loves you. If she throws a fit or tosses your concern as childish, watch out and start setting a bulk of your money in a protected account.