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[pannoowau]

I've known my boyfriend now for 7 years and we've been together as a couple for 2 years. We lived in separate towns until 2 years ago when we started dating. At that point I met all of his family and they loved me, said I took really good care of my son and that they were happy their son found me. Then we decided to move in together. I was going to relocate to his home town.
Then suddenly his mom starts being really cold to me and I just got a bad vibe that she really disliked me. Then I got pregnant and their were complications and she was just really rude about it yelling on our answering machine that I need to get over it, then she questioned why it would take me so long to recover from a c-section and just saying things behind my back (on facebook of all places) saying I was a horrible person and I'm a bad girlfriend because her son wanted to stay home and take care of me and our children after having our son which was a very difficult birth/pregnancy. And she said I should have told him not to stay home all the time. Then she'd get mad at me cause he didn't call her that often. Then between her and his brother calling our house calling me trash, it got too much we've wiped our hands clean of them, my boyfriend too. He doesn't like the way they treat me. SO we've moved and changed our number. Now they're calling my mom trying to harass her trying to find us to yell at us more, and all they ever say to my mom is reasons why we shouldn't be together. I just don't know how to deal with them and I feel so horrible. I'm a good person, and I care about their son so much. How do I deal with this? Is anyone else going through this. I know in-laws can be bad...but this bad?

[breasal]

i feel like ur not telling the whole story. it's too one-sided. it could be that the family feels like u stole him fromthem. nothing they can do. nothing u should do. don't feel sorry. just do what u have to do. press charges if u have to.

[dent81]

Sadly they can be this bad. I don't think cutting them off was the best idea. You need to comfront them and explain everything.