by maddox » Tue Jul 17, 2012 2:35 pm
Hi,
Im in the same situation ....I thought it was because a shelf fell on my nose when I was young but I wasnt to sure....Anyways I looked at some old photos of me when I was younger and its very clear I was meant to have a bump on my nose. You dont stop growing until 21 ...so even though you never had it when you was young perhaps you was meant to have it as you grow older.
Anyways, getting to the point I have been to every mosque in my area and they all say the same thing its Haram. Unless your nose is broken because of the jump rope and your 100percent show then its a no. Also if you have no breathing problems, no pain and your nose doesnt look abnormal (realllly stands out and gets people saying OMG)...then once again its a no.
I was asked why do I really want the surgery done and the truth is I wanted it because Magazines, tv shows ...the Media basically says a straight cute button nose is what is 'pretty' nowadays ...and I was just another sucker who thought my nose was ugly because the media doesnt approve of it.
Once I got over the idea of what a 'pretty' nose should look like and started to understand that God gave me my nose because thats what makes me .....as well as everyone is different and I should be very happy with it as well as stop being an ungrateful cow lol ....People have burnt faces and sooo much more ....Im glad I never changed my nose and used my own mind to realise I was thinking a certain way because of what I was seeing around me and not because I really felt it was ugly.
Just say Alhamdulilah. God makes someone for everyone ...if your partner, family and friends love you for you then nothing should worry you ....you should look at your nose and be happy. Perhaps you should be asking yourself why you dont like it?