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[said99]

SORRY FOR THE CAPS ITS EASIER FOR ME TO SEE ON MY SMALL LAPTOP.

OK, LET ME START BY STATING THE FACTS: I HAD A BABY GIRL WITH A GIRL I WAS AT THE TIME IN A RELATIONSHIP. DUE TO SEVERAL REASON WE SEPARATED TO LATER FIND OUT SHE WAS PREGNANT. I WANTED TO BE PRESENT IN MY DAUGHTER LIFE DESPITE THE FACT THAT SHE REFUSED TO ALLOW ME TO SEE HER OR EVEN SIGN THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE IF I WAS NOT WITH HER, BUT IF I RETURNED WITH HER THEN I COULD HAD SEEN MY DAUGHTER AND CLAIM HER AS MINE. I DIDNT LIKE BEING BLACKMAIL SO I TOOK HER TO COURT. AFTER MONTHS OF BATTLE, PARENTING CLASSES AND SUPERVISED VISITATION I WAS GRANTED UNSUPERVISED VISITATION....

WE TRIED TO WORK THINGS OUT AND IGNORED THE LIMITED VISITATION. I SAW MY KID EVERY DAY. THINGS TURNED SOUTH AND I TOLD HER I WILL CONTINUE TO SEE MY CHILD ON ONLY THE DAYS THAT I WAS ASSIGNED. SHE AGREED. SOON, SHE TOLD ME THAT I DIDNT HAVE A VISITATION ORDER ANYMORE CAUSE SHE RECIEVED A LETTER FROM THE COURT STATING THAT THE CASE WAS CLOSED. I FELT MAD CAUSE I SPENT SO MUCH TIME AND MONEY FOR THE COURT TO CLOSE MY CASE WITH OUT REASON. I PROCEEDED TO THE COURT WHERE THEY INFORM ME THAT THE CASE WAS CLOSE CAUSE THERE WAS NO ADDITIONAL NEED TO BE IN FRONT OF A JUDGE BUT THE ORDER WAS IN EFFECT AND I SHOULD EXERCISE IT. I TOLD HER THAT AND SHE THEN TOLD ME THAT A JUDGE SIGNED A DIFFRENT ORDER AND THAT I DONT GOT A ORDER ANYMORE.

SO, MY VISITATION STOPPED AND I HAVENT SEEN MY DAUGHTER SINCE. I BELIEVE IT HAS BEEN OVER 5 MONTHS. I ALWAYS CALLED, TEXT, EMAIL, FACEBOOK TO FIND OUT HOW MY DAUGHTE IS DOING AND IF SHE NEEDED ANYTHING. AND BEGGED MY BABY MAMA TO SEE MY CHILD. I KNOW I SHOULD HAD FILED A MOTION OF CONTEMPT BUT I DONT WANT HER TO GET IN TROUBLE AND I DONT HAVE ANOTHER 3 GRAND LIKE I SPENT THE FIRST TIME AROUND.

TO MAKE A LONG STORY SHORT, SHE FILED FOR SOLE CUSTODY AND TO STOP MY VISITAION CAUSE IM NON COMPLIANT EVEN THOUGH I GOT ALL MY PROOF CAUSE I SAVED EVERY MESSAGE AND TEXT WE EVER WROTE.

IN THE MESSAGE I WAS ALWAYS NICE AND TRIED TO RESSOLVE THIS MATTER OUTSIDE THE COURTS. I ALSO TRIED TO SET UP VISITATION ON HER GROUNDS. SHE SAID THAT I DONT CALL BUT IN THE MESSAGES YOU SEE THAT SHE TOLD ME NUMEROUS TIME TO NOT TEXT OR CALL ANYMORE CAUSE IT HURTS HER TOO MUCH TO SEE ME IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE. I THINK THIS IS THE NUMBER ONE REASON SHE IS FILING THIS.

I GOT A GOOD CASE. BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO PRESENT IT TO THE JUDGE. I HAVE REPRESENT MYSELF SO PLEASE ANY HELP WILL BE GREAT. RI LAW!

[muata2]

You should hire a lawyer. Seeking advice on the interwebz will likely end in disaster...

[darrell]

Start here:

http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/represent-yourself-court-faq-29087.html