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Should I continue to text him?

  
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Should I continue to text him?

Postby jolie » Wed May 30, 2012 4:57 pm

He even confessed to me, but I did not really respond/reciprocate to his advances.
We suddenly stopped texting and he became awfully cold to me after another incident in class when everyone rumoured that some guy in the class likes me. He thought I may be spreading the news, maybe? But I didn't.

Now, we have been treating each other as strangers for 1.5 months, like we've never met before.
We were so close in the past...
I have feelings for him, like when I look at him in the eyes I will feel disconcerted and dizzy...
And I think of him 24/7
I'm not desperate or anything, though... Don't want to appear to be...
I'm just waiting for him to make a move........ I don't have the guts to take any action, incase it will only serve to worsen the situation.

Yesterday. I mustered all my courage to text him. Here is the actual SMSes:
Uhhh umm ehhh...
errr..
Ahem. Sorry
I just wanted to ask if I'm extremely annoying, stupid and bitchy, because yo seem to hate me
*Draws breath*
And... Err
You see...
----------------he replied here: yes for texting too much
Oh.
Is that all?:)
(I waited a while for an answer)
I'll stop then, as you wish:D bye

I don't see how I texted him too much. I barely text him at all. It was an epic conversation...
Wait. Is he saying angry words, and meant the total opposite, that I texted him too little, or
He really hate me for texting too much. 
And also, you see those smiley faces, I wasn't smiling, I was crying silent tears then lol, for he said that he actually detest me..

I'm at loss of what to do!
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Postby jasper » Wed May 30, 2012 4:58 pm

you sound like a sad little child. grow up a little. care about things that matter, not wether or not who ever he is texts you back. you're obviously really insecure about who you are and what you think. how old are you?
..oh and just a tip, guys DONT like it when you send them mixed messages, like smily faces when you aren't happy. be honest, and be real. when you're okay with who you are, and stand for the things you believe in, men will flock to you. until then, you are only what you make yourself out to be.
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Postby broehain61 » Wed May 30, 2012 5:03 pm

He's a totally rude and disrespectful person. As you could see, he didn't even care about your reaction to what he just said! If I were you, I would try to get my mind off of him, find other people, hang out with some friends, even go to a party! I'm sure it would help.

Good luck, I hope it gets better!
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Postby ricard83 » Wed May 30, 2012 5:06 pm

Text him. Apologize for everything in the past. Tell him the truth. Be honest. He doesn't hate you or think u are texting too much. He probably has no idea of how u feel. Show him that u aren't who he thinks u are.
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Postby ji » Wed May 30, 2012 5:08 pm

Well, what is your motive? Sex? If so, I will tell you now that it is overrated. Also, eight to thirteen hours of abdominal and genital torture in childbirth isn't anywhere near acceptable especially since it may be far worse for you with an underdeveloped pelvis, genitals, and other female anatomy. Yes, if you have ever wanted to cry and scream, and live a super extended scene from the movie Saw except in real life then childbirth is the way to achieve that for yourself. Squeezing out a head the size of a "small" cabbage for 8 to 13 hours is anything but enjoyable. In fact, it is one of the worst experiences that you could ever hope to avoid. And women often lie about it. Don't be surprised if even your own mother tried to lie about it or was indirect or uncomfortable concerning this subject. Women also many times rationalize about this sort of thing with others and it is really unattractive. Well, don't say I didn't warn you. Good Night.

I have made an assumption about other people and not myself. I know how I think. Other people are usually less intelligent so I applaud you on the fact that you have an actual friend who isn't for sex. Most people seem to be stupid. I love it when I find someone who isn't. Bravo!

No, I don't have sex. I don't need to. I am not asexual. But I am reasonable and care about other people more than I do myself.
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