Dealing with in laws?

[achban]

i dnt know how elso to put this, but they r mean. we use to get along in the beginning of mine and my husbands relationship. i think things got alot worse when we told his parents we were getting married. we got married july 2011, but we have been together 6 yrs prior to that. well long story short my mother in law has said some pretty mean thing for example. i dnt get invited to anything they have going on. (like family stuff, or get together's.) she has called me numerous names. and she has even said she wishes my unborn child was a boy, and that i would nvr get her approval. and many other hateful things, and his fatherisn'tt any better. he has call me an oompa loompa, and alot more. i dnt know what elso to do. i want her approval, and i want to be around his family, but they just dnt seem to care. idk if its just my hormones making this situation worse sence im prego...or if im nit exagerating.
also i have tried talking to mother in law. that didnt help

[lawly1]

Not ALL in laws are like that but some can be quite contrary.

You may be right (partly) about hormonal changes, but your in laws should be supporting you rather than making you feel uneasy and unwanted.
Emphasise on your husband that you do not like the situation as it is, and see if he can establish what changed the relationship between you and his parents.

Other than that, it is simply a case of making your own way in life, and let them miss the grandchild. It is a hard fact of life, but some people cannot be changed.

Good luck with the birth.