by barend31 » Thu Aug 02, 2012 3:58 am
she sounds horrible and im so sorry to hear this horrible situation
i thought my ex mother in law was bad!
i lived with her in her home with my ex hubs and toddler son...
she would always criticise me and always had a nasty look on her face but never used physical abuse or use insults as bad as these...
if your falling for eachother and want to stay together then you both need to sit her down and tell her that your in love and that her son and you are both mature adults that can make decisions yourselves and that even though you are in her house she needs to BUTT out and mind her own because its your relationship not hers...
if you are not going to stay together then get the hell out whilst you can! it will hurt but if shes really upsetting you...
finally... if your still angry about the phsyical behaviour then maybe even speak to a police officer and report assault as someone of that age should not be hitting someone else and she could be charged for it
she does sound horrible and i feel so sorry for you
another suggestion is that if you and your hubs are in love move in with your folks or something... or maybe a bedsit anywhere to get away from her!!!!!!! she sounds hideous
also if he is wealthy then he should be able to afford a crap place to stay whilst you sort your issues (in all areas) out...
chin up babe! no mother in law is a nice one trust me... ive met my fair share... x x x