I am attracted towards my sister in law, is it against morality?

by **anson34** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:25 am

i dont know you so I dont know if your a creep..but if you really like her then just let her decide on wheter otr not she likes you and don't do anything right now. even if she might like you you can't put your wife behind you. So get a clear idea of what you intentions are. Because of the fact that she is your sister in law if your not really serious about her don't bother...

P.s. Your not blood related so its okay

by **fitche** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:30 am

think about it, do you really like this girl? is she very similar to your wife? she might just remind you of your departed wife (very sorry!), since sisters can definentally be like that. now, for you being 30 and her being 18, i dont think its wrong morally. after all, you cant really help how and who you show or feel attraction for. but in my opinion, nothing good would ever come of it. she doesnt want to have any more than a friendly relationship with you, so stick tot hat. i suggest, if your trying to meet women, meeting some your own age...thats meant in the most least disrespectful way possible.

by **curran** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:31 am

If you aren't over your wife, you could be attracted to your sister in law because she is such a part of your wife's memory. Feelings of attraction could be confused with other forms of mourning. There is not anything immoral about it, but it might be hard for her riser in you the same light. If and only if you are sure that you don't have mixed up feelings and are over your wife - at least in the sense Thr you could see yourself in a healthy and serious relationship with someone new, you should ask her if she could ever have romantic feelings for you. Then you could tell her that you have feelings for her... And if she doesn't return the feelings you can always play the whole "you just remind me so much of her it is confusing since you miss her so much" card. You can play it safe that way and my risk making her feel too uncomfortable. But I suggest doing some sole searching first. Good luck!

by **ingel** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:37 am

you need to clear your mind. you need to think about the consequences...the pros and cons. people say that age is no big deal but when you think about it this 18 year old girl..GIRL. she is still a child, she has just become a woman, she does not have that much of experience in life as you have...you are 30? have you tried looking for women around your age? the thing is..ok don't want to psychoanalyze but...maybe you just miss your wife and are looking to the closest thing to her (connection). to be honest you can't and shouldn't force someone to love you. love takes two people. right now you are just LUSTING.

by **danil70** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:39 am

Find someone of your own age... UNCLE!

by **talbot** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:42 am

Find someone of your own age... UNCLE!

I don't see whats wrong with that as long as its not a blood relative but if she's not into you she's just not into you for somebody your age though may I suggest that you be with someone around 24 that would be a good age for you

by **darik** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:52 am

Even if you want to get married after 3 - 4 years , marry someone of your age, it is immoral to get some girl involved with you who is so younger than you irrespective of the relationship...stop thinking about that kid like this and concentrate on your life to make it better.

by **caspar99** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:58 am

Bas yehi to hota hai yaar, biwi ke mare do saal hue aur tu chalu ho gaya sali ke saath. Gadhe zara soch kya hoga jab tere saas sasur ko pata chalega. Yeh aam baat hai ki biwi ke marne ka baad aadmi apni zaroorato ke liye bahar jaye, lekin teri baat to "Ghar ka bhedi lanka dhaye" jaisi hai yaar. Mat kar yeh, aghar tuje itni hi talap lagi hai to kisi aur ladki se shadi kar le officially, lekin sali aur woh bhi 18 saal ki, uske liye aise mat soch yaar. Me bhi tere jitna hi hu, meri bhi sali hai, muje bhi kabhi kabhi aise vichar man me aa jate hai, lekin us vichar ko kaboo me rakhna hi asli mardanagi hai dost. ME samaz sakta hu ki teri sali me tuje teri biwi ki soorat nazar aati hogi lekin yeh sahi nahi hai yaar. Uski umr to dekh, 18 saal ki hai woh. Uski zindagi shuru bhi nahi hui hai abhi tal yaar. Use poori tarah mard aur aurat ke sambandho ke bare me pata bhi nahi chala hoga, aur tu us per titiki lagaye baitha hai yaar. Bhul ja yeh saab, tere bachhe ke liye jee, uske liye maa le aane ka intezaam kar, naki teri zarooraton ke liye biwi laa ne ki soch. After all choice is yours, lekin aghar tune yeh kiya to badnami teri hi hogi, hath me kuchh nahi lagega, aur gaand pe laat milegi, samaj me badnami hogi woh alag aur tere maa baap ki nazaro se bhi gir jayega. Ha aghar woh tujse 2 ya 3 saal chhoti hoti to tu shayad tera yeh sochna sahi hota, lekin yeh to bahoot gala hai bhaiya, mat karo yeh. Aghar tuje kuchh kehna hai to tu muje email kar sakta hai [email protected] per,me tuj se friendly discuss karonga, tuje samjaunga nahi dost don't worry, if u want to add me on your yahoo mesanger than please do it, we will chat on this sometime.

by **gervaso81** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 10:00 am

If you really love your wife & don't want to remarry right now then why are you having such a bad thoughts for your sister in law .

you want physical relation with her without marrying her .how chip thought .

If you really like her then there is no problem to marry her.Say to your in laws about marriage. may be they will say yes.

By showing your attraction owards her you already has shown that you have forgotten your wife . So there is no way to show like you are really missing your wife.

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