I am attracted towards my sister in law, is it against morality?

by **gobrwy** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 8:48 am

friends please don"t mind my poor english . i am a 30 year old man my wife expired in a accident 2 year ago . now i am attracted towards my 18 year old sister in law (my wife"s sister) i visit to my in law"s house every week and every one in their family likes me. my sister in law and i talk just like friends . now my problem is that i am attracted towards her i have not told her about it yet if i told her and if we develop physical relationship then will it be considered as immoral? and if not then should i tell her or wait for some more time? she talks frankly to me but do not show attraction towards me . how can i make her fall in love with me? please don"t give me advice to remarry as i do not want to remarry for atleast 3-4 more years i am unable to forget my wife. so please give me advice related to me and my sister in law only i will be greatfull to you if you solve my confusion.

by **colum** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 8:50 am

18 years old? ew you perv

by **adelphos** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 8:54 am

Yes, because dude IT'S YOUR DEAD WIFE'S SISTER. Also a creeper because I doubt you magically started feeling attracted to your sister in law right when she turned 18. Find some other 18 year old to bang.

by **melville** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 8:56 am

no its not immoral its not illegal and personally i cant see anything wrong if she is agreeable ---- as long as you are both classed as adults ---- she is not a blood relative so see what she says and there is no need to wait

ignore the children that have no idea

by **barclay76** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 8:58 am

I don't think it would be immoral, as she's not related by blood at all, and she may be the closest to your wife, therefore an attraction wouldn't be unusual.

Just tell her that you're worried, because you have started to have feelings towards her, and you're worried how she would take it. If it's meant to be, she'll understand.

by **raleah** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:01 am

I think that it's awful that you would just go and move on so quickly 0.o :S
your wife would want you to move on, but not with some EIGHTEEN year old little girl ( your dead wifes SISTER) come on guy!!! this girl is not someone you should even think of being with haha
she is underage and her parents would be angry! Dont do it man!
you'll regret it! That isnt a good thing to do...

by **emek** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:03 am

Don't mind my poor english, but...WTF?

by **chepito** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:14 am

Your a weird Perv !

by **arne33** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:18 am

i think you should just distance yourself. to you it might sound ok right now but the age differnece will bring up huge problems in the future.

And one more thing, if youre asking if it's aginst morality, then it probably is. i mean how can you commit to something if youre not even confident about it yourself? again, find someone else, its probably not what you want to hear but its what you need to hear.

by **dallen47** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 9:22 am

Your wife expired???? horrible use of words. Anyway.. set aside that. I think you need to keep the great family ties and don't let attraction get in the way. She may be a great girl, but leave her as someone you can connect with and talk frankly with about the loss of your wife and still have them in your life remembering the past. Don't ruin a good thing.

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