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[gerard]

Spending Christmas with future in-laws and I know many of you will probably call me spoiled or something of that nature, but I got a lot of cool things from them however, my wife to be didn’t get me anything, and I spent a good bit of money and time thinking of what to get her. She spent a fair amount of money on gifts for her family but she didn’t get anything for me or my family, but the gifts for my family I have to put that it is from both of us when only I picked them and bought them. I also spent a fair amount of time picking out gifts for her family without her help. I feel weird and spoiled for thinking this but at least a card would have been nice. Money is not the issue and I feel that I put more effort into getting “everybody” nice gifts on her side and mine, but I feel left out, like she didn’t think of me at all. Now I know some of you will tell me to just be thankful for getting anything at all, which I am but it’s just weird to me that I feel left out, and I don’t want to say anything because all that will do is cause drama, so I would rather keep it to myself. Has this happened to any of you? Are any of you feeling the same way?

P.S.
If you are going to insult me because I feel a certain way, please don’t bother writing a comment I will only delete it.

[veto]

this has never happened to me... however dont feel left out, maybe she just thought u wouldnt want her getting u anything.. i know my bf doesnt want me to get him anything, and if i did he would get pissed. soo maybe thats just her thoughts? maybe let her know how u feel about this? :)

[abisha]

people are strange at times. The older you get the stranger they get. Its called married life. Not making fun of you. Just after so many years you just give up trying to figure them out.