What can i do about my girlfriends mom trying to run our life?

[winfrid12]

my girlfriends mom keeps trying to run ours lives, were having a baby in 6 months, shes 17 im 16. i know were young and her mom has somewhat of a right to tell her what to do. but she has new ideas and tells us whats going to happen when the baby gets here, likes shes pretty much telling my girlfriend were gonna get some mirena birth control device, but i dont agree with it because there is many problems online discussions women not being able to get pregnant again after having it romoved. i dont see why we cant just get the birth control shot or pills. then she wants to swap my girlfriend room with her brother, into a smaller room. we need more room for a baby tho. i feel like her mom is telling us everything that has to be done and will be done, its driving me crazy. i want to be able to raise my child the way i want to and have a family the way i would like to, without having a mother n law who runs our life. she has ideas that pop into her head and shes done half of what she has said before, me and my girlfriend pretty much have no sayso in what happens. on top of all of this im stressed out so this message could sound really stupid. my girlfriend is 3 months pregnant and were both underage, my grandma just got dianosed with breast cancer and my friend just passed away of hodgkins desease. someone please give me some advice, im so stressed i dont know how much more i can take.

[wattekinson86]

Ok well first you need to take 3 big breaths and think a little people tend to make stupid choices when theyre upset. Second you have to think about whats best for the baby. Third you need to stand up to your gfs mom and tell her if im man enough to have a baby im man enough to make my own decisions and to tell her to back off a little. If you have to live with them get a job or maybe two save up and get the hell out of there! Goodluck to you and your family.

[dureau]

Talk to your gf, and then maybe see if your gf can move in with you....