Why does my future mother-in-law & sister-in-law hate me?

[cadby]

I'm getting married in October this year. My husband to be and I are having a few issues because my future sister-in-law and mother-in-law have never liked me.

I feel as if I am always going above and beyond to get them to like me, it never turns out.

Whenever my fiance is not around, my future mother-in-law is always throwing jabs at me. She has told me that I have "metal issues" just because I wasn't feeling well and because I have on going issues with my stomach. She is always commenting on our home and we will never afford this and that. Then she throws in the guilt trip to my husband to be, "YOU are going over this weekend, right?" and if he says not this weekend, she freaks. It takes us 50 mins to drive to there house, and we need to have time to do our own chores. Whenever we do go over it is "do this and do that". Never just sit down and chat. They are larger people and can't do anything, not stairs or bend over, yet they want us to have children so they can have them over all the time. How can someone that can't bend over watch a young child?

Then there is the sister-in-law to be. She worries about how she looks all the time and then forgets her own child's stroller because she had to make sure her outfit didn't wrinkle. Then we were at a wedding and she was freezing so she put her infant in the stroller and put in front of the vent so she didn't get cold. I was like wtf!?!? She also has a pet name for MY fiance. It is so annoying I could just wach her over the head one of these times...

I'm lost for words, why is it that no one likes me. I feel like a miss-fit in there family and I wish I didn't. My main concern is what do I say to my in laws in my speech...I can't say nothing because that would look bad, but I don't want to lie either.... what must I do??

[chozai65]

Just be glad that they didnt hurt you