I'm 20 and turn 21 in two months. I got drunk and drove after a horrible fight with my brother whom I was terrified of (I know I'm an idiot - believe me, my whole life has fallen apart and I know I am lucky I or myself did not get hurt during this stupid decision) and I crashed my car in to a parked vehicle. I don't remember the crash, I think I may have hit my head very hard. I work full time and have never had a traffic ticket in my life. I take care of my whole family. I'm extremely responsible and I made a mistake that will never, ever be made again. I obtained a lawyer and he is waiting for my "discovery" so we can go over the case but in the mean time, while pulling my hair out and damning myself to hell, I would like to know if there is anything I can do.
I was told if I start going to AA it may help? I am going to start going tomorrow. I know since I drank and drove there must be a problem with alcoholism although I don't drink often at all.
There were a LOT of things going on during this, will that matter to the judge?
My boss wants to write a letter for me, explaining what type of person I am. Will this help?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

