by lazaro94 » Tue Dec 13, 2011 4:42 pm
Dear friend, it is sad that this all happened to you and it is really really sad that these kind of people still exist, and you know what since you have suffered all this you might think and see clearly that it is and always has been a women who had tortured another women. All these years women have manipulated and controlled their son’s lives and then made the lives of her DIL a living hell and she in turn has been passing the same to her DIL. When will this end, where will this stop. I am sure that your MIL had suffered in the same way as you are suffering now and even thought she knows how much it hurts she just pass on her troubles to you, they feel like it is the duty of a MIL to make her DIL suffer.
This women is totally obsessed with black magic and she had told and taught her son all these things all his life and he as all humans do have started to feel that the only reason he is not successful like Tata or Birla or Ambani is that someone has done black magic on him otherwise he would have been the richest man on this earth. Now you cannot separate this guy from his mother as she had manipulated and controlled him his whole life and even if he say to his mother to stop all this she will just manipulate him and then in a few hours he will be against YOU. the best option for you is to seek divorce and never allow anyone form this family to even see your kids as they are stupid and crazy people and if they meet your kids they are just going to say bad things about you and will turn your kids against you. trust me I know these kind of people who although would kill someone for no reason but when someone stands against them they make that person appear as the bad guy in all this.
If you want your husband back then you have to be strong and tell him that he can get only one thing his mother or his wife and kids. Your MIL will try to make you the bad guy in all of this which she had already done by blaming you for going some black magic and your husband believes the same way. So you have to be strong and tell your husband that since you are such a bad women who will do this sort of stupid thing to her own family then you should not be together anymore. I am sorry to say all this, I am not in favor of breaking a family but sometimes you just have to standup and say its enough