So depressed - I really need to get over my ex boyfriend?

by **advent** » Mon Jul 30, 2012 11:16 pm

Me and my ex broke up 4 months ago. but it wasn't a good break up and we went out over a year and a bit. Basically he's an A hole but he was lovely at times, but he did drugs, (mainly pot but others too) and sometimes i felt like he picked it over me. Anyway we broke up, he cut me off and didn't want to try and work it out. We did NC for 2 months until he contacted me again after that 2 months.

Now we try and do NC and we do it like for a few weeks then either of us snaps. and we've been apart for 4 months now, but over the weekend he told me he really loved me and still does. Last night we argued over txt cause sometimes we end up blaming who did wrong, etc how we hurt each other and get angry at each other. But we always shrug it off in a way and forget about it.

But i'm so depressed when I don't talk to him. like everytime we say goodbye, like i always wonder what hes doing, if he misses me, and i still love him heaps despite him hurting me a lot. He also told me he missed me and being together, but i don't think he wants to get back again ...

I need to get over this boy. how do i do it? Im really depressed cause i feel like i have no support and i miss him. my friends are busy with their own lives and relationship, and i'm usually by myself and a abit anti social cause I don't want to talk to anyone except for him. I need to get over him, by myself, how do i do it? any tips? I really want to focus on getting into second year law, but instead of studying im depressed and cry in bed. do i block him on fb or do i block his number? how do i stop thinking about him? i need to focus on myself

by **leonie36** » Mon Jul 30, 2012 11:17 pm

Me and my ex broke up 4 months ago. but it wasn't a good break up and we went out over a year and a bit. Basically he's an A hole but he was lovely at times, but he did drugs, (mainly pot but others too) and sometimes i felt like he picked it over me. Anyway we broke up, he cut me off and didn't want to try and work it out. We did NC for 2 months until he contacted me again after that 2 months.

Now we try and do NC and we do it like for a few weeks then either of us snaps. and we've been apart for 4 months now, but over the weekend he told me he really loved me and still does. Last night we argued over txt cause sometimes we end up blaming who did wrong, etc how we hurt each other and get angry at each other. But we always shrug it off in a way and forget about it.

But i'm so depressed when I don't talk to him. like everytime we say goodbye, like i always wonder what hes doing, if he misses me, and i still love him heaps despite him hurting me a lot. He also told me he missed me and being together, but i don't think he wants to get back again ...

I need to get over this boy. how do i do it? Im really depressed cause i feel like i have no support and i miss him. my friends are busy with their own lives and relationship, and i'm usually by myself and a abit anti social cause I don't want to talk to anyone except for him. I need to get over him, by myself, how do i do it? any tips? I really want to focus on getting into second year law, but instead of studying im depressed and cry in bed. do i block him on fb or do i block his number? how do i stop thinking about him? i need to focus on myself

wow

by **arvad** » Mon Jul 30, 2012 11:21 pm

You need to tell him what's going on in your head before you do anything. Tell him (if your sure its what you want) that you need to focus on yourself atm and maybe we should stop speaking because even talking to you is hurting me. If you still love him tell him, but say I think it will be for the best. You can't just start ignoring him it will upset him. And then maybe a few years down the track you two could try again. If he's changed and doesn't do drugs because that isn't something you want around ur children when and if you have any with him good luck

by **jamesmoon** » Mon Sep 17, 2012 10:46 am

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James moon'

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by **Loyyd** » Fri Nov 30, 2012 3:46 pm

I guess there are some places which are prohibited for using mobiles, just because of disturbance been created due to their noises. And it need be applied at all other public places, so that other people don'y disturb due to noise and have some seperate place to use or talk on their mobile phones.

by **tnt** » Fri Dec 07, 2012 7:46 pm

Listen sweety,I was with the Love of my life too.we were 2gether for 5yrs.Then we had our son.,got married,a New begining.

Well after 13 or 14 yrs. of havin to look over my shoulder to make sure he wasnt steeling $ to get drugs with.or the

Constant monorting him to make sure he didnt have any slip ups.I Could Not do it anymore.

when we 1st got 2gether I was 20 yrs. old....PartA!!!!!! All the time!!!!!! But,we All Have to grow up.Ecspecially when there is a child

involved.Honestly,I didnt care at all if he smoked weed.But he was so hooked on crack,it was immpossible to get thru to him.

It sux,cuz when some1 has an addiction like that.they will choose the drug over anything and or anyone.

Its not you,its the drug.I spent 13 to14 yrs.of my life with this man.It wasnt easy walkin out.But there comes a day when you realize,you just cant keep doing this.

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